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i want to have amale child iam afemale of 29 years and have two daughters iam really desperate to have amale child

2006-08-19 21:38:47 · 20 answers · asked by sonal g 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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You already have two daughters. Why do you want a male child? Raise you daughters with love and care. They would be as good as or better than a male child. Stop this obsession with a male child.

2006-08-19 21:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by naina 2 · 1 0

I know how you must feel. I regret to tell you that all things the others were telling you about the chances to concieve a male child are false. No one can determine the sex of a child before it is concieved. You can eat whetever you want, it won't make any difference. There is 50% of chances each time a child is concieved that it is a boy, and therefore 50% as well that it is a girl. These 50% are calculated anew each time, meaning that it does not mean that when you have had 2 girls (which could be the 100% if someone miscalculates) that you will have a boy. my mother is 3rd child out of 5. My grandmother has had 5 children, and only 1 of them was a boy, he was 4th. She also wanted a boy desperately...
It is your husband who determines what the child will be, as it is his 23rd chromosome (which can either be X or Y) that determines whether you will have a boy or a girl. Women only have the X chromosome. Therefore, when they combine XX is a girl and XY a boy.
In any case, do not tell yourself that it is your fault, and don't let your husband tell you that either.
I hate to reccommend the following, but you asked for it. It will be crude and cruel, and I must tell you that I do not agree with this idea, and I do not know whether you would consider it, but here it goes: If you are stong enough, in case of getting pregnant and having a girl, you can always have this checked at your gynaecologist. If he/she can say with certitude that it is not the boy you were hoping for, you can perform an abortion. I do not however think this will solev your problem, as it will be a huge psychological impact on you. my friend has had this because she had no other choice at that time and I have seen what she went through.
Just pray to your gods that you will get a male child in your next pregnancy. I wish you best of luck...

2006-08-22 04:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why do you attach such importance to a boy child? Are boys anyway superior than Girls? Boys have a tendance to grow with parents, but moment they find a girl, they get married leaving the parents in the lurch. Their affection is also limite.

On the other hand, girls always love their parents, even after marriage. The females are haing equal chances in this world, and are almost equal to males in all fields.

You have to think sensibly. Forget the old age taboo that you must have a male child.What about those childless couples? You are alteast blessed with 2 daughters.Have guts? adopt a male child.

2006-08-20 04:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by stoneman 3 · 1 0

1.Please go for medical cheak-up of your husband.B'cuz you are not carying the male cromosomes "XY" in you.Rather that comes from your husband.If the concerned cromosome are dominated within him,then he can re active the same by taking prescribed medicine properly.Yes It may prolong process.But You will be sucess later.May God bless you.
2.Now a days strong faith on God acts.I ever felt.I can suggest one address,where I blessed with a child even after 5-years after my marrieage.but i must want to know your address/state any thing.Because I am from orissa.& the place is at Orissa state capital Bhubaneswar.But you have to believe and have trust on God.Pl. note,no money is required for the same.only you have to bear your T.A etc.

2006-08-21 04:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bapie 1 · 0 0

Well the sex of your child is dependent on your husband actually. There are different time of the month the woman can conceive and different chemical make up in her body that will be more acidic or neutral. You need to research a little to understand the chemical make up of your body and your husband to. You can go to a fertility doc and he or she can explain these cycles to raise the percentage of choosing your next babies sex.

If you Goggle child birth by choosing sex there is a lot of information on the web to help you. It is possible to have a higher chance of choosing your babies sex before conception if you conceive during the right time of your chemical body change.

Good Luck

2006-08-20 04:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0 0

Nowadays,it makes no difference if you have a male or female child,coz the sons normally seperate out after marriage from their parents.Otherwise,get an XY test done of your spouse with a gynaec

2006-08-20 05:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by anil m 6 · 0 0

Your question makes me really sad. How can you as a woman put such a premium on a male offspring? I wish it was not so easy to procreate in this world & ppl have to pass really difficult tests to become parents ! We raise children without a thought. You already have 2 kids. Think of some other way to realise yourself.

2006-08-20 05:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Praxis 5 · 0 0

talk to a gyn dr. There are tests to help you have male children but how accurate they are I don't know. It's not up to you anyway. The male supplies the sex of the baby. Why are you so desperate. Babies are babies. If you want a boy so badly, adopt.

2006-08-24 04:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0 0

This is bad!

I am not parting knowledge but U are female and U want to succumb to male dominated world and try unusual means?

I mean girls are any day batter then boys so for as parents are concern!

I AM NOT WITH U!!!

2006-08-20 06:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 1 0

It is not possible naturally and by law it is prohibitive. I do realise your problem for which our society, our custom could be blamed. let us see forward when no mother with two daughter would cry for a male child. (on assumption and if I am not very wrong).

2006-08-20 04:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Expert 3 · 1 0

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