This girl broke up with me in June, saying that she didnt need a Bf right then, but I find out later that she doesnt like long relationships with guys. Fast foward to now I think that she likes me again, if I lose reach of her at school she looks for me and likes to hav me near her, then I will sometimes see her looking at me in class out of the corner of my eye. I am not sure weither or not I still like her, some of me still does I think. What should I do?!
2006-08-19 21:21:01 · 5 answers · asked by n.hendrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl broke up with me in June, saying that she didnt need a Bf right then, but I find out later that she doesnt like long relationships with guys. Fast foward to now we are still friends and all but, I think that she likes me again, if I lose reach of her at school she looks for me and likes to hav me near her, then I will sometimes see her looking at me in class out of the corner of my eye. I am not sure weither or not I still like her, some of me still does I think. What should I do?!
2006-08-19 21:49:45 · update #1
Dude, if she doesn't like long relationships and that's what you're going for, steer clear of this chick. She could also be the kind of girl that feels good about herself if she knows that a guy likes her, so she's stringing you along. Ah, the mind of the teenage girl...it is a thing of mystery. This chick will rip the heart from your chest...find someone who wants what you want. Good luck!
2006-08-19 21:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make arrangements to spend some time with her. If she is not interested in spending some time with you a few times per week, or perhaps once or twice to start with, then there probably isn't enough interest there to get excited about. But with regular contact then you can develop a friendly relationship and you may even become friends. Friendship is a good starting point for even better things. But don't rush things. If your friendship is developing nicely and you are both feeling comfortable, then you can tell her that you really like her and you can tell her about all of the things that you like about her that make you like her as a person. Then see what happens next. She may feel flattered and she may be happy that you like her so much and for the right reasons, she may return the favour by telling you what she appreciates about you, she may thank you but then she may just carry on being friendly or your advances may bother her in some way. If things go well you will get closer and things will become more intimate. But, again, don't rush things. If at any point in your relationship she seems bothered, troubled, uncomfortable or awkward, then this shows that she is strugging with a problem of some sort so try to find out what the problem is and help her to resolve it partially or completely. If you are successful in helping her every time that she runs into difficulty, then her appreciation of you might grow.
Martin Camden.
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2006-08-20 04:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by optimaxim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, if she isn't into long relationships, you have to wonder how many short term ones she has been in and if she was sexually active with them. If so, consider the possibilities of diseases that she could have unknowingly because of her promisciousity. Don't waste time repeating things with her. Find someone who will want to be with you and not just string you along until she finds a new one to chase after.
2006-08-20 04:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by j'sbabygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit on her once, then play hard to get for a long time, then ask her out after that long time.
2006-08-20 04:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run.
When a girl, or anyone for that matter, doesn't know what they want, aren't sure what they want, or don't want long term relationships, or can't stand to be alone, and they can't decide if they want you or not....
Who wants all of this drama?
2006-08-20 04:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by d h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋