one of the most hottest and most popular guys asked me out in summer school. a guy that i thought would of never given me the time of day but he did. we almost made it to a month and he already told me he loved me. but a week after that he dumped me cause he wasnt ready for a commited relationship. and we just started high school and hes in my 1st period class. the first day when i saw him i pushed him to be flirty and then hugged him but at the end of the day he walked right passed me. i dont know what to do im so hurt. will i get over this.......I MISS HIM SO MUCH!!!! i just think he wants his options in high school and wants to flirt with other girls and doent want me to be jelous. he also told me he regrets it buts still not ready 4 a girlfriend. but i have to see him every morning and its so awkward!!!! what do i do?!?!?!!?!?!
2006-08-19 21:16:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just think about other stuff and you'll get over it naturally. I bet you'll get over it in a week, and you two will get along fine in spite of this. Good luck!
2006-08-19 21:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally the consumption of HUGE quantities of sugar and listening to ENDLESS iPods filled with nasty hip-hop has left the average American girl with absolutely no idea how to:
GET THE HELL OVER YOURSELF!
But we aren't suggesting you are anything like that. Absolutely NOBODY I knew in the beginning of high school was ready for a "long-term" commitment -- you gotta be kidding, right?
School is hopefully at least PARTIALLY about learning, and then if you have a few dates and some fun, it just adds to it. But this whole worrying over "will-he-love-me-forever" is CLEARLY causing you to THROW yourself at him, and personally I RAN from girls like that in school, and STILL do to this day, since people like this come across as having ZERO interests other than those that would SEEM to be fulfilled by a relationship.
As soon as you have actually acquired a LIFE, this hottie boy will be meaningless memories -- nothing more, nothing less -- and then YOU can casually walk past HIM and smile in the confidence that truly you need NOTHING other than your own happiness in your OWN life, and that boyfriends and puppies and school dances and trips and fun are all just EXTRAS...
Carry on... :)
2006-08-19 23:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by fitpro11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i had the sammmme exact thing with me..me and my ex-boyfriend broke up 5 days ago when it could of been a month..but anywho YOU will get over this believe me its highschool start new relationships even thought its hard you will get over it. uhm and just stay friends with the guy obviously he's not ready for a relationship so dont get heart broken over it..HOPE THAT HELPED!! :D
2006-08-19 21:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kaya(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you focus on that class and not the damn boy! you're wasting your time thinking about some boy that is obviously not thinking about you. its obvious that he is sincere about hurting you but you said it yourself. he just wants to flirt with other girls. besides, neither one of you need to be in a commited relationship. the only person you need to be commited to is yourself and doing good for yourself in school.
2006-08-19 21:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find another.
2006-08-19 21:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him try to find another guys if u want to be happy ..........
good luck
2006-08-19 21:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by nEeLaM zAfaR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up his NECK?
2006-08-19 21:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another bloke!
2006-08-19 22:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Matthew H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋