i love her ,she is my good friend,she knows everything butshe refuses me,why?
2006-08-19 20:57:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because you love someone, doesn't mean they love you. If you're a good friend of hers, she might view you as a brother or just another one of the girls (I know you're a dude, but when we see a guy as "just a friend", he may as well be one of the girls)---two things that just don't incite lust or romance. If she doesn't feel that way, she doesn't feel that way. Sorry :(
2006-08-19 21:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes, things are not meant to be. Perhaps, she is not the one Destiny has in store for you. May be, she just wants you as a friend, nothiing more. But don't lose hope because as you and that woman go out and hang around together, there may be a change in her feelings for you if she finds out the real you. Love sometimes can be bought with time.
Just be a very good friend to her where she will see your all out support and concern for her and you'll see, things will work to your advantage.
Don't worry too much if she refuses you these days, as I've said, just persevere in making her like the real you. Your dedication in doing that will give you positive results and it will turn her refusal to acceptance of your love for her. Good luck.
2006-08-20 04:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love her then she's definately wrong in refusing you. True love is very hard to find....once you miss a chance ...you might miss it forever.
I think you must convince her how much you love her.... it seems she not convinced enough.
Some people might say that you are in the so called "friends zone"......well thats bullS H I T.Love itself is the most beautiful, strongest and deepest kind of friendship..... make her understand that..... so such a "friends zone" doesnt exist.
Try try and try again... who said love was so easy.....if you truely love her then you should always be with her and never give up.... until something very drastic happens.
Best of luck.... show her how much you care and what she means to you.
2006-08-20 04:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Moy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a loving friendship. that's safe for her. Crossing the line may come, but pushing the issue could run her off. If you are a true friend you would be patient. Date someone else and then see may get the wake up call she needs so that she will not lose you.
2006-08-20 04:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by BmoreBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone with all your heart and sincerety is marvelous.
If the person you love does not feel the same way, than you have to move on..
think of this, what if you were told today that someone you knew, and liked, was madly in love with you, and wanted you to feel the same,?
IF YOUR FEELINGS ARE NOT STRONG ENOUGH FOR THAT PERSON, IT IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN, RIGHT?
if it is not there, it is not there, and you can't wish it, want it buy it, steal it, or snap your fingers, and make it happen,as it WONT,, I am sorry for your disappointment, but it has to be mutual,,
good luck
2006-08-20 04:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry sweetie..it could be that she doesn't feel the same way or shes scared. Im not sure but if you really truely love her make her realize it! Just dont do anything illegal
2006-08-20 04:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by CookieMonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more confidence. Act like you don't like her. Don't be mean!
Turn the tables around. I know this is hard but I learned to do this when I was 21, two years ago.
2006-08-20 04:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by thunderbomb90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be afraid of having a relationship and then potentially losing your friendship if it doesn't work out.
2006-08-20 04:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by lsuatlargechair 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes 2 hands to clap. Probably she prefers you to remain as a friend to her.... or that she already has someone else.
2006-08-20 04:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ah Huay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's not worth waisting a good friendship, maybe it is just to valuable to her, and doesn't want to lose you. a good friend is harder to find than a good lover
2006-08-20 04:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by valentin32 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋