When i say i am going to unblock one of my ex lovers, he is not happy. He knows how upset i get when he chats to her. But he has chatted and admitted to it, to her for weeks. Have i a right to be very upset with him?
2006-08-19 20:17:04 · 5 answers · asked by tinny l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you do, he sound's like an insensitive prick. I know you can do better.
2006-08-19 20:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do. Not because he's chatting with an ex, but because he's deliberately ignoring your desires, and because he's looking to hurt you when you fight.
A more mature partner would (1) reach some compromise with you about chatting with exes and (2) respond to fights by trying to solve the problem, not by trying to do things that hurt your feelings.
Actually, another way to look at this is that you have no reason to be upset; your partner has helpfully clarified for you why he is not worth dating until he grows up a little.
2006-08-20 03:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by llemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to do anything you wish and you know it! Why do you need to ask us; you need no help on this one. Block- unblock..how old are you?!! That is not a serious relation..are you 2 together or not? So, what you have to do now, block and unblock some more..hope you got it right! Leave him and then leave yourself alone.
2006-08-20 03:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by luv_mornings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you have the right to be upset, you need to talk to him seriously, he is acting like a child. tall him to stop doing that or you will reconsider the marriage, he will get the message. if my hubby do that, he will be out the door.
2006-08-20 03:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the bum
2006-08-20 03:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Re Fined 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋