When you,ve had your heart broken so many times how do move on to the point where you stop bein lonely?

Question

Ive had my heart broken over and over and lost all hope how do i move on stop feeling lonely and start trusting again?? Is it hopeless??

Answer 1

Nahh, not hopeless. You made it through yesterday didnt ya? Trusting someone comes while you get to know someone and youre moving forward with that person. If you dont have anyone at the moment...trust shouldnt be an issue. Being without someone to care for and love and have that returned...that's the real issue right? Still, ya dont know what's out there around the corner, so jot a list of things to do and cross them off as you go and distract yourself, keep yourself busy until you meet someone youre interested in. Good luck :D

Answer 2

It ios not hope less to trust again, i think it's just the kind of guys that u attract, A heart cannot be broken over and over again, it can only be broken once. U r lonely in d mind, snap out of it. Quit closing ur eyes to a world of doubt, and quit feeling all alone like the world has turned its back on u give someone a chance to tame your wild wild heart. Read a book and learn more about computers to keep ur mind occupied.

Answer 3

No it's never hopeless. And buddy or girlfriend who ever you're not alone in this. Read my post on why does love hurt continued? Also God has a perfect mate for us all and when we meet him/her the pain stops. I know that pain you feel I just went through it tonight. Although not as bad as the girl I was tryinng to woo she's got it worse cuz she took a bit too long to come clean and admit that she liked another guy. But honestly I'm ok with that cuz girls like her are so hard to find. She's the type I could marry some day and will maybe her maybe some one else but deffinetly her type. Good luck man or woman.

Answer 4

Sweetie, please don't be lonely. I too have had my share of heartbreaks, in fact I was at the point of suicide cos I never thought that I was good enough for anybody. I even started to sleeping around because it gave me a sense of worth. But now I'm engaged to the most wonderful guy in the world. Even though he lives in another country I do not feel lonely any more because I know his love is with me. So sweetie don't give up hope. If I can finally find someone who loves me for me then I'm sure you will find someone soon. As for trusting people, It took me a long time to trust anybody after what men did to me, but once you find the person of your dreams you will find that you will trust them with all your heart

Answer 5

You need to take a good look back on those relationships and figure out why your heart keeps getting broken.
Perhaps your give too much of yourself too soon and the thrill of the catch is gone.
Perhaps you are too needy and they start to feel suffocated.
Perhaps your picking guys based on looks rather than what kind of person they are inside.
I don't know you so I don't know but if your heart is getting broken over and over then your doing something wrong over and over.
Don't get into another relationship until you figure what this is and learn from it.
Don't give up though....true love is out there for you.
Good Luck.

Answer 6

of course it's not hopeless once you get your heart broken.. first, during the first weeks and months of moving on you just cry and cry until your eyes turn really red.. but you'll come to a point where you'll feel tired and accept the truth.. it's hard to accept it though but you will.. after that crying process, you just tend to free yourself from that person but the memories are still there.. you might feel lonely for a long time but there will finally come a time that you've finally realized you've completely move on and then you'll strat loving again.. i don't know how, but it just comes that way..... that's accdg. to my past experiences....

Answer 7

I guess you will never know until you actually do it. You will have to just put trust in the one you have faith in. Eventually you will stop feeling lonely, and be able to move on with your life.

Answer 8

Bite your lip and move on. It may happen again. Hope not but be prepared. Real honest love doesn't come easily... At least not that I've found.

Good luck


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Answer 9

its really hard to move on, so just take a time out to heal. it is okay to cry, its better to have a friend beside you and listening with your never ending sentiments. consider it as a trial which in the end would help you become a better and wiser person.

Answer 10

Well stop treating yourself like if your stupid or something and start closing your dam legs, STOP HAVING SEX!! your lonely is because you put yourself in that position, their are plenty of things to do with your life!!