I have a problem/ I want 2 die. I'm 13.
2006-08-19 20:00:45 · 10 answers · asked by hottie123 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I'm not a counsellor but I have to wonder why you feel this way.
I have been depressed too and sad and felt like things were poitnless. But living has taught me that life always changes and that what's happening today won't happen forever.
You will have bad days but you will also have good days, happiness and sadness. That's life.
I know it's hard but you have to keep hoping that things will change.
I think the fact that you have asked this question means you are not completely ready to die and you are looking for hope.
I"m sure in your town there is a crisis line in the phone book. I urge you to call that line. They can put you in touch with people you can talk to who can help you -- especially if you don't feel like you can talk to your parents.
Trust me. I'm 34 years old and I can tell you that this can pass and you can have a happy life.
Hold out hope that there will be a light at the end of the tunnel.
2006-08-19 20:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is a very hard time for a young girl. You won't get great one-on-one advice here on Yahoo. You should seek real professional help. Do you have any siblings or parents you can trust? You need to talk to someone about how you are feeling. Someone you can talk face to face with.
If you have the ability to log onto Yahoo, you have the ability to find a counselor in your area. There are certainly services set up especially for teens. There is also the suicide hotline, which is free - just look in the phone book. YOU CAN OVERCOME THIS - think about how much there is ahead of you - things will change for sure, you can beat this!!
2006-08-20 03:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a councellor but I've been there and felt similiar feelings at your age. You should seek out a professional counsellor though. Do you attend church at all? Can you talk to a minister? It's a difficult with friends and at times they sure can be mean. Don't put other people's judgments on yourself and accept yourself as a worthwhile and high potential person. You have a lot of time ahead of you to see big changes in your life. It could be exciting too. Try not to let negative, hurtful, or even slanderous people get you down as their judgments are wrong most of the time.
Pray ask God what you should do.
2006-08-20 03:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 60 with # 20 grandchild coming in Dec and # 1 Great grand child also in December. When I was 29 after a dirty divorce I stuck my head in a gas oven and turned it on. As I started gasping for air it occurred to me my ex wife would be the total winner, and myself the total loser. As you see here I'm surrounded by love and family, that almost wasn't. As life went on I noticed there were people in worse shape than I and Life and Living is really worth fighting for. Go somewhere and find someone you feel you can trust, I'm sure someone close to you would take the time and if not, keep looking, find a goal, find a dream as tall as the sky, shoot for the moon, look around at all the opportunities here in life for you, that wasn't around for me at your age in 1959. I wish I had an answer for you
2006-08-20 03:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by plowboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Not no Dr. Phil. But I probley have had the same promblems you have!! E-mail me and i can talk to ya' and help ya' Get through the deppresion and suicide b/c i was in that stage and you can't really get over it but theres a way to be happier and not want to think of suicide!!! skater_boi35@hotmail.com
2006-08-20 03:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to someone like a counselor about how you feel...i think a lot of people when they're dealing with tough issues think of dying as a way out. i have felt like that before......living in a dead end. but i talked to someone about this and somehow i pulled thru...have u actually attempted the act too?? i went thru that kinda phase as well
2006-08-24 00:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Angel_Kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look for help from strangers on the internet. talk to a friend or parent, write your thoughts down in a journal or a story or a poem or call a hotline (1800suicide) if it gets to that.
2006-08-20 03:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a counceler but i like to help people,i have alot of experiance.www.freewebs.com/sammydeea its a bit about my self,if you feel you want to talk tehn you can emeil me on the address on the site.all the best
2006-08-20 10:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by sammydeea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one problem only,you dont want to live already.
Face the problem and going to solve it.
Finally you will enjoy your life.
2006-08-20 03:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by BDR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a counselor or something like that......
but ive felt that too.... b4 when i was 14........
what i did is that i told it to someone nearest to me even if shes not my friend.......i thinks its better if you it tell to opposite sex....
she told me to eat.....she paid for all the expenses....then i felt better.....at least at that time...then we became friends.......
i suggest you look for someone to talk to.... thats all you need....thats effective to me
2006-08-20 03:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by cad_djp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋