ok so you start chattin with these people then they for your ASL(age sex location)and you also ask for theirs .When it comes to girls they are very kind and sweet just like some guys I chat with and some guys say a lot of "unnecesary" stuff first they ask you lots of stuff that are still below your limits then later on they will start asking you if you have big boobs or if you have nice legs .but I don't answer this questions "correctly"I tell them I have light brown hair and blah blah blah .Why do they have to ask those question?
2006-08-19 19:55:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all to fit in with the sexual fantasy. Be wary of them when they even start asking about how tall you are, hair colour it graduates on to breast size and sometimes even much worse all leading up to the fact that they're not interested in making friends but in having cybersex. Just follow your instincts. There are some terrific people out there and sadly there are a whole lot of pervets out there too.
2006-08-19 20:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that. I'm not. Men are indeed visual hormonaly sex driven creatures. Only a select few of us myself included have learned to control that and see and respect yes I said RESPECT the opposite sex as more then just good looking creatures. We real men see you as friends with great personalities, voices, charming, romantic, witty, and beautiful people inside first. But I'll admit the outside appearance sure helps. So ladies don't give up yet Mr. Right is always out there waiting for u. Good luck. I hate the ASL thing myself I only answer if he or she put's there info up first. Men should never ask boob size and what not. What difference does it make?
2006-08-20 03:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would like to thank BABY BEAR from the bottom of my heart for her comment....not all guys are like this. I bow to her wisdom and the acknolegement that all people are different.
Secondly, a lot (not all) guys are into sex, sex, and more sex. Not that sex is a bad thing but there is more in life than that and there is a time and place for sex.
If I were a woman and constantly had a problem with guys talking like that I would mess with their minds...get them hot and then tell them that you are really a heavy, bald-headed guy smoking a cigar. Let them dream about that.......
Best of luck.
2006-08-20 03:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that's happened to me so often I don't even go into chats nor do I use yahoo messenger anymore.
I just figured a majority of people in chat rooms and such just want cyber nookie.
Is it just with me or were a lot of the people that messaged you from Isreal or Egypt or somewhere around there? If I wound up saying they were being rude they'd be like "sorry what that? i no no english very well"
blarg
2006-08-20 03:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The majority of people on chats these days are just trying to get off and don't want inteligent conversation. That's why I don't even deal with chats anymore. Get a myspace so that if they're so interested they already KNOW if you have big boobs or not and can move on to other more interesting topics, lol.
2006-08-20 02:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i must say as a guy myslef not all guys are like that. i have honestly never asked any girls i have chatted with about anything physical related unless they ask that sort of question first.
2006-08-20 03:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by xantheus13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys are very visual creatures.
Guys like what they see and girls like what they hear.
Hence, the Mars and Venice quote.
2006-08-20 03:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why are you frustrated?!? Are you taking it personally? I dont know who asks you pers. questions, but i never asked anyone. I dont have experience in chatting?!? Maybe thats why i didnt ask so far. Dont take it personally..have fun.
2006-08-20 03:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by luv_mornings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a guy, guys are pigs.
My wife even has that problem. Guys IM her, she tells them right off she's married, and they don't even care. Like I said, P-I-G-S.
2006-08-20 03:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by hawke0008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want your body, not your mind. And thats kinda sick. Next time that happens im them a link to a porno, and start blocking them.
2006-08-20 03:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by CHAD K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋