okay my boyfriend from egypt likes to masturbate while we have online conversaions by web cam but right after he cums he geta all weird like what he just did was wrong he ill usually sign off or say he needs to shower immediately after he does this he sorter shuts down and quit speaking he wont even keep the cam on whats wrong wih him, i know he is muslim and must wait till marriage to have sex but why is he doing this.
2006-08-19 19:53:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We feel like masturbating is kinda like dirty sex. Even though it is not sex it strikes a nerve with guys that have morals. Think of it this way, have you ever seen a guy that is proud of doing this deed? If so would you want to be with him?
2006-08-19 19:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by CHAD K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, if you listen to your conscience; it will tell you it is wrong to masturbate.
What you have told us is the most obvious case for the wrongness of masturbation I have ever seen before!
We also know, when we think about it, that that type of prsctice does nothing for our inter-personal relationships with members of the opposite sex.
Masturbating is really a way of using the body of the girl/guy as an 'object'; it is not a personal communication of love between people - as it was meant to be!
It shuts down communication; it doesn't build it.
This guy - poor fellow - is a naughty Muslim!
You tell him!
I mean, I'm not having a shot at him being hypocritical Muslim, there are plenty of us Christians [and I've been caught in it before myself] who have had the same problems; but we can all learn from one another's experiences, and help each other, and this is a very clear example of what really goes on to us, as human beings.
You could help him by telling him this is badly wrong and that's why he feels this way.
He should stop while he is young.
2006-08-19 20:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by dr c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is the best part of grown up life there is no denying that but if he is half way around the world from you and his religion says it is wrong he probably feels they same way christianity says it is wrong but not all people think that way and some people need to open their minds from the way they were taught does he think you masturbating is dirty if so why does he continue to let it happen and one of the other answers is soooo true it is hard to type for fear of ruining the keyboard with fluid one your hands not to mention good hygiene not to even attempt it
2006-08-19 20:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Benjamin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when you are young the way adults portray sex has alot to do with how us children end up feeling about it when it happens for .....if your parents made you feel as if sex is wrong and a dirty little secret that's exactly how we grow up thinking it should be.....
2006-08-19 19:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by babygurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well would he feel worse if he had sex with someone else while talking to you? I do it all the time if I'm talkin to a woman except my mom I'm "strokin it"
2006-08-19 20:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Have Tongue Will Travel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PPL!!! wake up!! Your friend from Egypt..F R E A K S !
2006-08-19 19:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by luv_mornings 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen..
he did something for desire...he knew it was dirty for him and after that he blamed himself for doing it....
so he couldn't stand any conversation with u or any other guy....
so he leaves the computer
advice: see another boy
2006-08-19 20:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just a little weird
2006-08-19 19:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by the babys moma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um typing with C(U)M on your hand isn't cool then he is probably think i hope she doesn't think i am a horny bastard, or he just doesn't like the way it feels it is weird when it dries
2006-08-19 19:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by Dum Spiro Spero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants to have sex.
2006-08-19 19:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋