my father seems to always thing i need his advice. hell we had a fight earlier no wait 2 fight. one on me replying to him rudely (i dont like being asked the same quesyion when i know damn well he herd me the first time) and the secound that laster for 2 hours on ,mmy not being able to gain weight. he always says it hasn to be beacuse i am not trying hard enough and that BS but no he has to be a dick about it. and so final after 2 hours i told him that i dont want his advice nor his help.
i all reasy have it set up to talk to doctors about things so i do not need him and pluse he always makes me feel like an idiot and keeps repeatng the same info over and over.
i am 20 and i know better than to fight with him like this but hes is such a fing moreon! and i know i am also talking like a little bastard.
2006-08-19 19:21:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
The answer is simple...parental love. Give the man a break! He just loves you and wants you to have a better life than he did. He wants to save you from the mistakes he made.
You don't need him? Fine, find out how fast you go to him when something really major or tragic happens in your llife. And you know what, he'll be there for you no matter how rude or nasty you have been to him. He really does KNOW more than you and it is sad that you are so unappreciative of his love.
Someday, you will have children and remember those immortal words: what goes around, comes around. You will have a child who at 20 years of age will think the same disrespectful things of you and treat you just as disrespectfully. It will be interesting to see how you view things then.
2006-08-19 19:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by ilse72 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
everybody has his opinions about almost everything. if an opinion can't be justified , it does not has much value. if you say your dad is a moron , it is probably only your opinion. anyway , if he is that type, let him give advice. you just pretend to hear it and don't follow it if you dont want to.
apparently he is much older and he doesn't understand you . but you been seeing him for 20 years and you know his type. just humour him . my father also gives me instructions all the time. and I am 38! I try not to fight. i am not in his generation and he may not understand me. so i just let it in through my left ear and out through my right ear. he may be happy and i am also happy as long as i dont have to follow some advice which i don't like!!
2006-08-19 19:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by jaco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father is a big bully.
He is like a catfish.
All mouth and no ears
You are old enough to
move out of his house.
Do so.
A guy like that is never
going to change.
He will always be right
and you will always be wrong.
You would gain weight if
he wouldn't put so much
stress in your life.
Move out and support yourself.
Good luck.
2006-08-19 19:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking us for advice :)
Some people like to help others.
Some like to dwell on others' issues so they don't have to worry about their own.
My daughter would probably say I give too much advice too. :) Human nature!
Most of all, I think we all need to be listened to.
2006-08-19 19:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's not the advice but the way he gives it ...dads are like that. You should try talking to him calmly when ya'll are not fighting.
2006-08-19 21:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it is easy to give advice rather to obey that same advice to oneself...
2006-08-19 19:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by shamma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋