okay...i aksed this girl out and she was very interested...or so i thought...seemed interested and told me to call her...we set up a date of her choice and had a good time, tells me to call her and she fu cks around givin me a bunch of excuses... everytime i call her she makes something up...but she calls me on the days that are convienient for her...wtf is goin on women? why do you do **** like this ?
2006-08-19 18:59:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's ******* off...tell her to be straight and honest with you. Either she's interested or she's not...tell her to leave the playing at the elementary school playgrounds
2006-08-19 19:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU had a good time on your first date. However, you did something to turn her off. Something you said or some way you behaved.... A woman that is interested in you won't make up excuses as to why she can't see you. It's not "playing hard to get." It's "you won't get." Maybe she calls you when she knows you're busy. She gets to hear you suck up to her. It's simply ego-stroking for her. She wants to know she's still desirable even though she has yet to find your permanent replacement. Next time she calls, right away tell her, "I gotta go. I'm busy." Wipe your butt with her phone number and flush it away. She is not worth your time or effort.
2006-08-19 19:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to tell you but the question is whats wrong with you? by the way you write you sound like youve never had a date before and part cave man!! Grow up! She gave you signs already that shes not interested in YOU!! she probably calls you only because she feels guilty? move on man,, there are millions of women out there, look for someone else!!
2006-08-19 19:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she may be telling the truth- maybe she's having a bad month. if you know where she lives, try dropping by with a cold 6-pack (or a bottle of wine) and a chick flick. then ask about her day, let her talk to you about her problems. this will show her you are interested enough in her to take time out of your schedule to make her feel better. if she has any interest in you at all, you will score major brownie points. and if she wasn't interested before, it might make her reconsider. btw-if you haven't been physical with this girl before, don't make any overtures, it will make her think you're only trying to get in her pants.
2006-08-19 19:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by swtstuf2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a test how much are you really interested in her and not what's in her pants although some women just play games if this goes on much longer forget about her and move on why not reverse the roles like don't answer when she calls if she's playing games you'll know cause she will call you and see you when it is convenient for you
2006-08-19 19:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by murkymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill...don't call her again. It's your turn to play hard to get. If she never calls....then I think this is what happened: she didn't really enjoy your first date with her the way you did,...she was just too nice to tell you straight up. It's hard to get real with people you don't really know that much. In that case move on....there are other fishes in the water.
2006-08-19 19:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women can do crazy things....it's true. I think you need to flat out ask her what's going on to find out if she's not interested. If she is, then ask her why she's been acting like that and if she's not then leave her alone, you can find someone better that will give you the time of day.
2006-08-19 19:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Margaret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like this. She must be real shallow or she really didn't have a good time. I would bet the latter. Just leave this one alone. There are many other girls out there that are worth your time. Good Luck!!
2006-08-19 19:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by soozeeq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't ALL women but this woman seems fickle..maybe she changed her mind about you and got a different first impression of you.
Maybe she lost interest
(I don't think she's playing hard to get because that's like TOO hard to get)
2006-08-19 19:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WTF is wrong with you. You went out one time, does that mean that you own her? Come on, just because she went out to dinner with you does not make you boyfriend and girlfriend. You say she only calls when it's convienent for you??? What is she suppose to do, drop everything when you call?
Okay, how Fu cking old are you anyway?
2006-08-19 19:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋