I am now with my ex fiance, i left my bf to go back to him. I feel really guilty about leaving my old bf. I was the only one he had. His friends stopped hanging out with him and we only had each other. But he got weird on me, watching me take a bath and not letting me talk on the phone, Was I wrong to leave my bf???
2006-08-19 18:53:40 · 21 answers · asked by iadevilwoman4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dodn't think that u were wrong to leave him, u know y u did it, u knew what u were going through. Your ex fiance must be the one because u wouldn't have gotten back with him if he didn't have qualities that u found interesting. u and ur bf wouldn't have broken up if he was d one or the so called perfect guy. It was ur choice and u already made ur decision, if it's d wrong one u'll learn from ur mistake. It's life to make mistakes so son't feel upset or broken hearted OKAY!!!!!! Just Live It Up.
2006-08-19 19:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the boyfriend not letting u talk on the phone is a controller. It will only get worse. The fact that he has no friends is a flashing red light. Don't feel guilty about him, he got himself into this because of his behavior toward you. Maybe see your ex fiance some--but there must be a good reason that he is the 'ex'-- but don't commit to anyone until you grow up some more and make wiser choices in selecting guys. Find someone who values you, and you value him. Someone who treats you with love and respect. Counseling would be great even if it's just talking to a wise friend. You can choose neither of the 2 men.
2006-08-19 19:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you were wrong. If you didnt feel comfortable w/him, I think u guys should've talked it out first. If he still didn't change then u could've taken the step, but personally I think it's a good step u took. He probably would've gotten a lot more extreme than not letting u use the phone so no need 2 feel guilty about it.
2006-08-19 19:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by ginie_in_a_bottle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf may be controlling, which could lead to other abusive behaviours. you seem to need to be with someone....so if not with bf, then you go back to your ex. make friends so you rely less on a relationship. like yourself, so that you are not dependent on a relationship for a companion.
2006-08-19 19:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u dont know if he seriously loved u or was just being with u for the sake of being with a girl.I think that if he loved u he wouldnt ever do such a thing like watching u taking a bath.Thats what i think,rest is for u to decide.good luck
2006-08-19 19:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm report him as a stalker 2 the police or something i mean thats just sick only watching u take a bath i mean if he's in there with u might as well take the bath with you
2006-08-19 18:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were. What makes you think it's going to work the second time if it didn't work on the first. You should move forward and not move backward.
2006-08-19 18:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if he is controling now, it will only get worse, if ur friends wont talk to u, then they really not friends, right? what would you tell ur best friend? then take ur own advice
2006-08-19 18:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you made the right call. He is a loser if he dropped his friends for you and made the other demands. Good riddance!
2006-08-19 18:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by dt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy? Thats the main question.
2006-08-19 18:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋