ok basically i have a boyfriend. and i been liking my best friend since june of 2005. and i told him something once. about it. he was shocked. but didnt say anything. and now me and him got closer and ever since then we strated flirting a bit in the beginning. and then eversince school closed. he changed but not when we hang out. and just the other day at the movies. he was offering to buy me stuff. pick me up. and stuff. and hes always nice to me. alwaysz offers me things, helps me, when i had a boyfriend before, the dudes name was angel and he said if angel ever tried anything he was going to give angel his wings. and anytime im sad he helps me feel better and we use to have 2 hour conversations and flirt alot and send dirty photos back and forth, but we stopped kind of. and once when i had a boyfriend he lied and said he got a girlfriend who i never heard of since. and now he's looking for a girlfriend. and whenever i am down about my looks. he helps me and make me feel less worried
2006-08-19 18:38:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i think he is just being nice. i dont know. you tell me. i want to be with him sort of but then again i dont. and i would HATE to see him with another girl
2006-08-19 18:40:35 · update #1
the question is. what in the world should i do? who should i be with?
2006-08-19 18:48:54 · update #2
also the other day. me and him and two other friends went out to the movies and he offered to pay my ticket, my popcorn, and gave me money to buy clothes in the mall...he's just s sweet. to me
2006-08-20 07:14:43 · update #3
too long....shorten it, then people will care
2006-08-19 18:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ricknows 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. This seems sort of tricky. After he heard u like him, he started bein' nice and boyfriend-ish. I think he thinks it's his job 2 do that or he feels obliged 2. You have a bf, so basically it's cheating. If u have feelings 4 ypur friend, I think u could give him a chance...after telling your bf the truth. If the whole date scene doesn't work, leave it at friends and don't flirt anymore.
2006-08-20 01:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by ginie_in_a_bottle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never believed in friendship between men and women. We often discuss this issue and many consider it possible. I was reading on this site hundreds of same questions. I love my best friend what should i do? personally i don't find a lot of difference between friend and boyfriend as we enjoy being with each of them and share all our thoughts and problems. physically, when u are in daily contact with your best friend, it is normal to start feeling physically attraction. his is your best friend because u like much about him so why couldn't he be your boyfriend. So don't hesitate dear, tell him as much he enjoys being with you and now that he doesn't have a girlfriend yet, it is the best time to talk about it.
2006-08-20 01:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is your friend keep him that way relationships like that end up in the gutter. He helps you now and is always a shoulder to lean on, but trust whenever you guys go for the full relationship thing its gonna be rocky, feelings will really start to get involved and you guys wont see eye to eye hell probably end up jealous not a good idea back off now b4 it is too late
2006-08-20 01:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing all those things for u maybe he likes you and hime telling you that he is looking for a girlfriend may be his way of throwing you a hint y don't you just sit him down and talk to him. He sounds like a good catch you better act fast or you may end up regreting it!
2006-08-20 02:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by applebottomchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you two have something special, and no, I don't think he's just being nice, sounds like a jealous bone on both of your parts. Id let it play out though. Don't go breaking up with someone with out real reason and jumping into a new relationship.
2006-08-20 01:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be with your boyfriend if you're considering other people. It's not fair to him or yourself. Ditch the boyfriend and come clean with your best friend about your feelings. Even if it doesn't work out with your friend, at least you won't be leading your boyfriend on.
2006-08-20 01:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by shizzngiggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you tell him how you feel and you see what he has to say. your not going to find out until you lay it on the line. if he doesn't like you as more than a friend, then you move on. and never send any boy dirty pics of yourself. that is so demeaning. you need to start thinking more of yourself than that. if you want a man to treat you like the princess you deserve to be treated as, then show more self-respect. no one is going to respect you if you don't respect yourself. set your standards high now. you'll acheive and recieve much because of it.
2006-08-20 01:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl follow your heart and the first sign to tell him is if you cant stand to see him with someone else then you really care about him but if you dont speak up soon you going to loose him
2006-08-20 01:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by hottie_n_ms69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is a lightweight forget him and stay with Angel. Anyone with a name like that has to be pretty tough to make it!
2006-08-20 01:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by dt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to make a decision and run with it. If he makes you happy, then go for it.
2006-08-20 01:43:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋