i am concern for her....?

Question

i am very concern for my bytch.... jp...

but anyways, she's a cheerleader at my skol... and i play on the football team... And i wont mention her name though but i will say this...

she is preggy.........

like wtf??

i know that she got raped by her dad, and she still goes to him and she asks for more.... her mom is gone, or at least, she left her family... and my friend is an only child...

umm... this is hella disturbing, so plz.... be mature...

anyways, should i like get help or something?? cuz this is hella weird... and she's 5 months, preggy... the cheer and football team first found out she was preggy when the last 2 weeks of skol was coming...

she;s still 15 and she just quit skol...

she only told the closist friend of hers... and other ppl on our team dont know yet....

but her dad and her seem very happy...

but i aint, and some of her friends aren either....

this is just messed up.......

pls. help.... i dont wanna get her into trouble...

Answer 1

Call social services. For real!!!! If her dad is the father, there are some serious issues there. She needs to be in a place away from his manipulation, and emotional abuse. She may seem happy but she isn't. She will be FUC*ED for life emotionally and mentally if this continues. Of course it's too late for an abortion now. (I'm against abortion but in the case of incest it's different!!!) For real call your local social services department and file a report. It's the only right thing to do. DO IT!!! don't be a pu**y. this needs to be done, and she can't do it herself. She needs you to help her and that is the only way you can. Do whats right.... Please.... I would if I were you. You have to!!!

Answer 2

first, make sure she needs help. second, make sure she want's your help. I do agree with you that tshe needs help and I'm really surprised cause most guys nowadays don't help. I'm not sure what you can do for her because I don't know how she will react. are you a close friend of hers? if you are, then talk to her. ask her what's going on, how she's feeling and if everything's ok? I don't know if this could be possible, but maybe shee needs professional help? because she was raped! by his father! and wants more? I think she has got some bad dependence. Do what you can to help her, do what you think you should do. I hope everything turns out well. god bless you.

Answer 3

umm. its really messed up that her dad raped her and that she keeps going back for more. there is something very wrong here. she is only 15 years old. she needs to expierence life and not be sleeping with her dad. man, i really would suggest going to a school offical like a counsler or something and telling them. This situation is not right. if she got pregnant by her dad, then that baby will have so many complications, be deformed and god knows what else!!! go to the authorties and tell them the situation. your friend doesnt need to be doing this. Incest is not right. it is against god and life in particular. she in her own way is trying to reach out and get help. if she told her closest friends, help her man. go tell someone that can help her and put her dad where he belongs. in a state jail for molesting his daughter... Please. do it for her and that babys sake.

Answer 4

The person you are talking about is a freind of yours? A same sex friend of a similar age to you? And you refer to her as "your bytch". Excuse my ignorance, but what do you mean by this (calling her "bytch"?).

And, yes, she probably could do with some support and advice. Most teenagers could benefit from these things. Show an interest in your friend, in her story, in her problems, in her thoughts, in her feelings, in her reactions and in her responses to her reactions. Take her seriously and show her that you and many others like you care about her thoughts, her feelings, her reactions and her responses to her reactions. Your friend needs to feel that someone is sufficiently interested in her and her story to want to help her to some degree. She probably needs a lot of love, respect, understanding, empathy, sympathy, support, encouragement, guidance and advice. Give her as much of these things as you can but be aware of your limitations and do not be hard on yourself if you cannot meet all of her needs, because she probably needs a lot. She probably also needs some high quality assistance from a trained professional such as a Counsellor, a Life Coach or a Mentor. But don't underestimate the value of a loving and supportive friendship in these situations. Don't judge or criticise your friend and help her to talk about possible courses of action. List all of the actions that both of you can come up with, but make sure that these actions are ones that are realistic and ones that your friend feels able to go ahead with with some degree of comfort and confidence. Then encourage your friend to make some choices (even if she finds it difficult to do so) and to follow through on these choices with as much courage and determination as she can find. If for whatever reason she finds it too difficult to choose a plan of action right away, then tell her that it is okay to relax and get on with her life as best she can until she feels a bit stronger. If for whatever reason she finds certain aspects of her plans too difficult to put into action, then then reassure her that this sort of thing happens a lot for a lot people and that there is nothing wrong with having difficulties in some areas. Tell her that it is sensible and wise to drop a plan before it has been completed if you are fairly sure that continuing with the plan will lead to problems of a kind that you want to avoid. And congratulate her for making good decisions. If she is successful in putting any of her plans into action then show her just how pleased you are for her. Encourage her to make her own decisions and to make decisions that are good for her without causing too many serious problems for other people. And tell her that when other people pressurise her into doing something that she doesn't want to do, then the best thing to do is to politely decline, persistently if necessary, until the demanding selfish person backs down and goes away. And if persistent politeness is ignored then it is fine to get angry, aggressive, hostile and even nasty if it is necessary to do so. Go as far as you need to, but don't go to far (we can always tell when we are overdoing it).

Martin Camden.

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Answer 5

You have to tell someone dis is rape no matter if shes letting him do it.... She needs someone to love her try finding a family member of hers like her grandmother or maybe an aunt cuz wen he get exposed she's gonna need someone besides her friends...I also think you should tell your parents so dat they can help

Answer 6

Too bad,*****! Thats what you get for calling me a fag.And I can't even read what you said! How did you know she got raped by her father,were you trapped in the closet?

Answer 7

You don't want to get her in trouble???? If what you say is true, she is already in more trouble than you could ever cause -- in fact, telling someone might be the only thing that saves her.

Answer 8

you MUST report this. She is being abused by dad. It is against the law. Call your local Department of Human Resources and you can tell them without giving your name or phone number, or anything. But tell them. Now.
You can be her hero.

Answer 9

wow shez only 15? yea she doez need help....idk but i guess u shud talk to sumone about it....or just talk to her privately and ask her how she feelz about this kind of stuff....

Answer 10

thats sick...huh...sorry, but it is, and if it is true then ewey! but your friend and her dad are stupid their baby will come out all deformed and stuff. yuck.

go ask jerry.