ma Baby and i have benn together for awhile now....We love each other and he was ma first.... One day i listened to his voicemail and heard another female leavin him a message....She was cusin him out saying why he didn't *** home and that she wanted him to bring her car back to her.....Now we've been together for a few months and i always thought it was his car....And the girl is pregnant.....When i comforted him about it he said it was da wrong number it wasn't for him....Then i decided to find out on ma own so i asked his gay god brother and he told me everythimg dat i was rite and dat him and da gurl have been together for sum years....Now me and ma boyfriend have broken up and now back together because i just found out dat im pregnant.....Should i stay with him for the baby sake or should i leave.... Please no bullshit answers dis is serious i need sum help frm perople who dnt knw me cuz ma friends just gon lie to me.....
2006-08-19 18:24:58 · 14 answers · asked by is it real 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that you should stay with him if he lied to you in the first place about her. She is pregnant with his baby? They have been together for years, this is/was a serious relationship & if she is having his baby he needs to be there for it. Just don't stay with him just cuz the baby, you can be a single mother lots of women are. That is entirely your decision if you want to stay with him, I personally wouldn't because he lied about something very big & it sounds like he's not ready to be a father.
2006-08-19 18:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by 3m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not stay! Why would you want to? Do you like the idea of living with a man who is a liar and a cheat? Do you want to have this baby and then another and another.....?
Leave right away and get government aid to help you until you can manage on your own. Call on your friends to spend time with you and help you through this rough time...
Good luck to you.
2006-08-19 18:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I know it hurts, I think you would be much better off leaving him... he is only going to keep lying to you and cheating... He will have to pay you child support and you make sure of that, but you don't want you and the baby to go through this all the time, you need someone to love and take care of you and the baby and you won't ever meet him if you stay with this guy... think about it sweetie.. I wish you luck....
2006-08-19 18:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, LEAVE NOW!!!!.. listen baby, he's a joke. the lies he's telling you now, its gonna get worse when the baby comes....Im 22 and my parents are divorced and now that Im older and I can see both sides, Im glad they didnt stay together, if would have been hell for me. dont be with him, let him help out with the baby, but don expect him to. he has no reason to stop lying, you took him back whats his motivation to stop. I know women think with emotions more then logic, and you have strong feelings for him so this may fall on deaf ears, but email me with any more questions the_lion14@yahoo.com
2006-08-19 18:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by mr kent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave him girl you can make it on your own. Plus you have to think if he lied to you once about this kinda stuff than he will probably do it again. And you do not need to raise a baby in that kind of situation. Let him dumb butt pay you child support and go out and find a real man.
2006-08-19 18:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with him you are causing more problems for this child. This is not your fault or the child's fault. If you stay with this man, you will always wonder about another woman. You will fight and you will be miserable. When you are unhappy, your child is unhappy. You deserve a chance, and so does your child, to be happy. Don't ever settle for just anything. You are much better than that. So is your child.
2006-08-19 18:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave he can still be in the babies life if ya'll are not together! Find a new man and alays remember that for everything one man don't do there is always one out there that will...Good luck
2006-08-19 19:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by applebottomchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly id say leave him case u definitely dont want ur kid being raised that poor excuse for a man
2006-08-19 18:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect yourself and leave that fool! If he's lying now...only imagine what else he is lying about.
2006-08-19 18:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by PugMarya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor spelling. I smell a fake here...
2006-08-19 18:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋