A few months ago, the DJ at my party asked me implicitly if I had a bf and I said no. Then he asked why. After I gave him my reasons, he asked what type I'm lookin' 4 & compared himself 2 my answer. I hadn't talked 2 him after that, but a friend of mine needed help 4 a music act, so I had 2 ring the DJ up. When I called, he said that I could pick up the cd, so I went w/a friend. She waited in the car while I went inside. It seemed he was still busy w/it. He showed me what he had b4 burnin it& we had a little convo. After that, I thought he would burn the cd and hand it over 2 me. He did, but also walked me 2 my car. We were talkin' and he said: 'who knows. Maybe u're gonna take me out sometime'. I laughed and asked where he wanted 2 go and he said anywhere I wanted 2 bring him. He even invited me 2 a party he's throwin this weekend, which I can't attend unfortunately cause of my exams and the distance. Now my q is, should I take him along the nxt time I hang w/friends or not?
2006-08-19 18:19:36 · 12 answers · asked by ginie_in_a_bottle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't believe I understood a word of that.
Anyway, it's obvious this guy is into you despite (by your description) acting like a complete dumbass about it. Look, if you think he's cute or fun or whatever you women are into these days (because *I* cartainly don't have any idea), then just ask him out yourself. Yes, invite him to hang out with you and your pals. It'll be a blast. You already know the answer, just go do it.
2006-08-19 18:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sullivan Smith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to stereotype-but- every DJ/club promoter I've known leads a crazy life. If you are just looking for a good time, go out with him(and some friends of course) but don't get into a relationship, it probably won't work. The nature of his job makes it almost impossible for a couple- not stable working hours, him being around hot, drunk girls all night. It'd almost be like me dating a stripper.
2006-08-20 01:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by magic mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the guy, but based on my thoughts and everything, he is trying to play "smooth" with you. You sound like the party type girl anyways, so I guess you don't care. Just make sure that theres a bunch of people with you.
2006-08-21 01:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you & your comfort level with him. Anyway, both of you are just friends for now. So, need no think of it so complicated. Keep it simple. If it's meant to be, both of you will work out eventually. If not, who cares, both of you can be best of friends. Retreat if he's not as good as you think.
2006-08-20 01:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. It will give you a chance to really know him and be safe cause your friends are around. Also it will give you a chance to get opinions from your friends about him.
2006-08-20 01:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...he sounds like the typical. Before you go with him, make sure he isn't making a bet with his best friend to take you out.
DON"T LISTEN TO THESE OTHER PEOPLE SAYING " GO HEAD". IF YOU DON"T KNOW HIM, THEN KEEP ON MOVING. DON"T BE A CARELESS WOMAN!!!
2006-08-20 01:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bunch of lines to me ! And , why can't he take you somewhere ? Sounds like a bumb to me.
2006-08-20 02:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by listenup_yall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it out what can you loose maybe it the one you will be for life
good luck
2006-08-20 01:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him out by yourself...he's seems quiet keen...Ask him out, go for coffee or lunch or dinner or something...I wouldn't go out with friends first date...
2006-08-20 01:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.
You don't even know him.
2006-08-20 01:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋