My bf is nice but is acting weird and won't tell me about it. All of a sudden unreliable and acting suspisious. It has been a couple of months now and when I ask him whats up he tells me nothing. We have had a good and caring, fun relationship for 3 years now and this is not like him. What should I think of this? Help!
2006-08-19 18:06:05 · 15 answers · asked by j g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys can be trusted to a certain point.....
First, never act too possesive.
Second, keep one eye open at all times without him knowing.
Third, nomatter what, they are always MEN!!!!
just like wild animals that sometimes need a leash.
Not saying that all girls are better but our guards should always be halfway up. JUST IN CASE!!!!!!!!! Yeah, I was bitter too (cheated on more than once) but I now have the most incredible guy in the world and you will too!!!!!!!!
2006-08-19 18:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Bananaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be trusted to an extent. It all depends on what their vice is. Not every guy cheats. If your boyfriend is acting strange for a couple of months, think about if anything different has happened within that time frame. Is he hanging out with his old friends more or is he not coming to see you or staying out late or what? Go with your instinct. You did the right thing to ask him but since he is still acting like this, then you need to get better information. Do things unexpected. Call him at unusual times, visit him, make plans to do things with him--these are just examples. If he acts strange when you do normal things then you need to look further to see if he is doing something. You can go about that in different ways. Maybe you are close to one of his mutual friends or maybe you know his routine, so see if there is a major difference in those things. If his friends treat you differently or act weird around you all, then that may be a clue that he is cheating. I don't know the details of him acting suspicious, so you need to possibly do some investigating. I don't mean to act obsessed with it, but for your own sanity you need to do something to find out for sure. Who, knows--you all have been dating for a long time and maybe he is getting cold feet or is wanting more in the relationship in some way. Do you guys ever talk about getting into a more serious committment? Think about all the reasons that caused his change in behavior. I wish I could help more, but that is all I know to say.
2006-08-19 18:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it sounds like he has other prospects but wants to keep you as well. Might as well forget asking him about it time and time again because that will only make him become more withdrawn. I know this from personal experience. You'll just have to do some investigating on your own. He's not gonna admit to something that he wants to keep doing (if he's cheating).
2006-08-19 18:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. ok i got into this relationship with this guy. i told everyone he was the right man for me and i was so in love well turns out he is a married man with a child. we had intercourse one night he told me that no matter what happens he loves me only to come to find out that here i sit pregnant and well he is denying it when he is the only guy i slept with. so obvously men cant' be trusted at all
2006-08-19 18:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by short.lil_momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry, i answered u q thumbs down by accident...but if u have a weird feeling of him...then tell him and go by what ur instinct tells u...u may be getting that feeling for a reason...you really never know though...its hard to tell...sry u feel that way...
oh and thumbs up.....my hand slipped...is sounds like i cant be trusted...it truely was an accident...i clicked that instead of answer q...
2006-08-19 18:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by ξℓ Çђαηφσ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes got the milk for free and hes looking for others. You blew it by not making him commit to you and now hes out playing the field. I am sorry.
2006-08-19 18:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there seems to be a widespread notion of us guys "changeing".i think its when they realize that things are going so smoothly that they might end up with you forever,then they rock the boat.
let him kno that you kno whats up..listen if he admits that thats it then be happy....if he doesnt then you shud question him on the cheating issue. just dont skip straight to it,itll give him a reason to claim mistrust,turn it on you.
2006-08-19 18:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never really umm go to an advice cloum but be careful don't give out to much information LOL
2006-08-19 18:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by chica sexy LOL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secrecy is not good, might be other clues too. Sorry but it don't sound good.
2006-08-19 18:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Ms CMP5260 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋