Lonliness is part of life. It sucks. But, everyone feels it.
When I feel particularly down, I try to take a nap or shower.
I always feel better afterwards. Also, call friends- rent movies.
Get social. Answer questions on Yahoo. Go for a walk. Love
your pet.
Lonliness passes. If you are depressed, seek a counselor
to talk it over. That could be part of your problem. Listen to
some music and eat some icecream (not too much!).
Write 50 things you most like about yourself. Or write 50
things you'd like to do before you're 50. Or read Cosmopolitan
while waiting for you manicure and pedicure to dry. Try a
color that's bright- a happy color.
Write a letter to a friend. Write a poem. Listen to great music.
Google something interesting or buy something on ebay.
Search the web. Color your hair. Read a great book. There
are lots out there on every subject under the sun. Marianne
Williamson's "A Woman's Worth" will make you feel great and
then you'll want to read "A Return to Love" Running with Scissors is fabulous and fun. I loved A Million Little Pieces even
though it's controversial. Have a Johnny Depp film fest where you rent Pirates 1, Blow and Secret Window or Edward Scissorhands. If Johnny doesn't trip your trigger (whatayanuts?),
then have a Sean Penn or Deniro or Gwenyth movies: Shallow Hal, and Room with a View. I can get the books and rent the movies at my local library for FREE.
There are always things to do. Take a shower, put on a nice perfume, paint your nails, put your feet up and watch your favorite movie. Crush up some oreos and sprinkle 'em over
your favorite ice cream. By the time you are finished you won't feel so lonely.There's a diffence between being lonely and being alone. I don't mind being alone. I can't stand it when I feel lonely and you can feel lonely in a crown or in a bad marriage.
Be good to yourself. Treat yourself like company.
2006-08-19 18:23:24
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answered by Linda S 4
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Hmm loneliness is very depressing definetly.You think y am i living? Who wants me? Who cares for me? There are some people who have so many friends how come i feel so lonely or left out? I think this could be solved by watching tv, listening to happy music(completely avpid the sad music) give a beggar some money help somebody .Bringing a smile on others faces can make u really happy😁it works go ahead.Buy some fun accesories stop wearing sad colours wear bright colours attract positivity.You don t smile at everyone but the ones who r nice to u be nice back the ones who r rude w u completely avoid them bcuz if they have done it once they can do it again make u feel more lonely n unhappy.So say prayers hug ur parents call ur grandmom .Feel good smile😉
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answered by Anonymous
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I know the feeling. Just be yourself and dont try too hard to make friends or else they may all feel empty meaningless even useless.
Dont get me wrong meeting friends can sometimes make you feel less lonely but shallow relationships can emphasize that lonely feeling.
Dont wallow in self pity. Look at the up side - Sometimes it's better to be lonely than in miserable relationsionships.
What do I know..I feel so lonely too...you're not alone...
2006-08-19 18:24:04
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answered by Sammy 3
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Don't think about it much, just go with the flow. Call up the friends you have and spend as much time out of the house as possible. Eventually you will meet tons of new people. Be confident, people like that.
2006-08-19 18:07:21
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answered by sheograth06 2
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i felt like that too a lil while ago. u didnt give much details so i cant help much. but just try not to think about it and why dont u read a book or somethign to keep ur mind of it. or maybe u can call a friend or start talkin to somebody here on yahoo who will be nice enough to talk to you
2006-08-19 18:16:24
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answered by Beca <3 4
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you can be more friendly to people. this will help you make loads of friends. but such emotions are common. even i feel lonely at times. if you have some problem, you can discuss with your parents. they will help you out
2006-08-19 18:09:00
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answered by ankit pruthi 2
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get used to it if your lonely youll be that way for a while god makes it hard on his favorites so stick it out & drink a little thats all i can say
2006-08-19 18:09:18
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answered by caliman_916 2
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Get fallin' down, stinkin' drunk; go for a drive; meet nice men in blue uniforms; go to jail for the night; meet Bubba and become his girlfriend.
2006-08-19 18:11:25
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answered by christopher s 5
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If you see any guys you like go ahead and ask them out. If your to shy then have afriend ask for you. if you face rejection don't take it hard, just forget about it. Other wise you would be an emotional wreck.
2006-08-19 18:10:18
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answered by chikkita818 1
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check out a chat romm and make some new friends?? ask your self why ami lonely and start there
2006-08-19 18:07:42
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answered by Anonymous
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