a woman who tells you that she loves you more then the only other guy she loved.but he died and tells you that she thought that she would never love any guy like that ever again in her life.but one day she tells me that god showed her favor with me in her life,and she actually loves me 10 fold.but yet she'll do things to really ripp my heart out.and act like its no big deal.then come back hoping you show mercy and take her back.this has happened 10 in two months.i'm so crazy about her that she knows i'll accept her back everytime with open arms.i ask you,am i the worlds biggest fool,or is love divine in this manner sometimes,and i just have to learn how to roll wiyh the flow.i'm so afraid of loosing her altogether.what do i do.
2006-08-19 17:49:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to dump her a s s, I mean it. Love doesn't hurt this way. You have some self esteem issues. She is a b i t c h and your letting her take away all your power, put a stop to it now. There is someone out there for you, who will love and treat you right.
2006-08-19 17:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there comes a time in life when you have to take a stand. I applaud you for giving her a second chance, but after a third and a fourth and a fifth something has got to give. Maybe she doesn't love you as much as she says. It could very well be the fact that she knows she can do all of her dirt, get away with it and still go home to someone who is willingly accepting all of this. Trust me, I'm a woman and I know enough about my species to know that some of them are cold hearted witches.
2006-08-19 17:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by swilkes8305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why she does this to you because you always let her have her way. You will have to start making her prove she loves you and not break you heart.But, what is her side of this story.? what does she do that tears you heart up? if she leaves you then it time to say good-bye to this woman and a better one.It maybe be hard to forget at first but, atleast you will not suffer forever. Think about the next time and tell her this and see what she has to say. GOOD LUCK!.
2006-08-19 18:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better than this girl. She's not worthy of you. The reason she does things that are hurtful and destructive to the relationship is because she knows you'll take her back. That your putty in her hands. This is not a case of love being "divine." This girl sounds like an immature, selfish, uncaring user. Believe in yourself that you deserve better and dump her. Then maybe she will meet her match and he will give her a taste of her own medicine.
2006-08-19 17:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to be with them.
She obviously doesn't know how to communicate well.
Don'/t let yourself be sucked in to such a dysfunctional relationship. Maybe she has hormone problems....but whatever she needs to learn to respect you. Please don't go through your life being verbally abused.
NO you don't have to roll with the punches she sends.
You are NOT doing her a favor by taking her back.
What in your past tells you that you deserve this sort of behavior?
Love is grand, but we can 't be with all the people we love. And yes you will love again. And imagine loving someone who treats you wel .........It is wonderful
2006-08-19 18:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person can say many things when they are lonely. to say she loves you then leaves this is not love. you bare all with love. you try every avenue with love to make sure that you cover all ends when there is trouble and do this together. honesty is the basis of every true relationship and respect. it sounds like you give her everything and yet she uses this with no respect on her part. think twice about taking her back again. dont put yrself through so much sadness over and over.
2006-08-19 17:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never trust a follower of a religion unless you are a believer! This woman does not love you. Here went to the trash my 10 points.
2006-08-19 17:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by crapex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 11:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by bungay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out right now. The pain you have felt in the last few months will be nothing compared to the day you look back at an entire life wasted. It happened to me. Get out now.
2006-08-19 18:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same exact woman who i am currently with is the exact type who has told me that i was her "soul mate" and that we were destined to be together and that she loved me, and then she turned around and ripped my heart out, chewed it up, spit it out, stomped on it, fed it back to me, ripped it out again, shattered it, and did the same exact thing with my soul and my will. She too takes advantage of me because she also knows that i will accept her back every time with open arms. Whether or not we are fools or not, i do not know, but i do know that we are in love.
2006-08-19 17:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋