Be honest: what would you do if your significant other asked you straight up how you felt?

Question

Does it kill the mystery? Is it insulting? Are you an idiot because you don't know?

Answer 1

No I would like it if he wanted to know.
It doesn't kill the mystery, attraction can never develop to love if you're always mysterious and secretive about your feelings. And its not insulting, he might just need confirmation about your feelings, he might be scared to share his until you voice yours first. And he isn't an idiot if he doesn't know already, he is probably only asking since he suspects but wants confirmation.

Answer 2

I would tell them straight up how I felt regardless of what the truth was. Don't be a fool like I was I just got out of a 3 year relationship not by my choice bc i still live him but bc he thought we made better friends. I feel like I wasted my time.

Answer 3

i would tell him/her. well we have to tell each other how we feel at some point in our relationship so y not do it then? its not insulting. and no ur not an idiot if u dotn know. ur just confused, or u just really dont know. there's nuthin wrong with that.

Answer 4

I would say, immediately and surely, that I never know with certainty how I feel. My ability to know myself and my feelings real-time is zero.

I never, ever ask anyone I care about how they feel about me. I might break down and do that on my deathbed, but not before then.

Answer 5

I'd answer them honestly. I wouldnt think anything badily of it except maybe I need to show them a little more affection.

Answer 6

I feel significant.

Answer 7

I feel used, insignifigant, unloved, miserable, troubled, hated, sad, upset, mad, and constantly taken for granted.

Answer 8

I'd tell her, honestly, and truthfully, all stated in one small word...

"Blissful.."

Answer 9

i dont think it really matters if u've already told them