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My twin sister lied on me, & my former foster mom took her side & yelled @ me, cursed me out, & told me I'm going to wind up in jail or dead & deserve it, & she also said that she doesn't give a damn about me. Then, she pushed me 10 times, & then I pushed her back 1 time, & she threatened to throw something @ me & call the police on me. & she told me 2 pack my stuff & leave-now I'm homeless!

I'm a 23-yr. old college grad, & I lost my home during Hurricane Katrina, & have no place else to live. I have no job & no money, & I'm stuck. I have Tourette's Syndrome, & it was an automatic impulse to push her back, when I didn't mean to.

How can I be wrong for something I can't control? I don't mean to be childish here.

***Please don't agree with or take the side of etxyellowrose or Gothic Martha. They are harrassing me & stalking me on Yahoo! Answers with nothing but insults, & they're ignorant of my situations. Thanks.
Sorry 2 call them out like that, but just to let you know.

2006-08-19 17:27:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

10 answers

no matter what happens in an argument, pushing or hitting is not a good way to solve anything, she pushed you first and she is wrong, you need help from those closest to you, she is supposed to be the adult and acts not only imature but abusive to the person who she should be a parent to and there is no excuse for her actions, I hope knowing you are not in the wrong helps, even though it does not help with your current situation. best of luck.

2006-08-19 17:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by pay 4 · 2 0

And we are no more ignorant of your situation then anyone else on yahoo answers. It is an open forum in which you ask a question and we give an answer......Our own personal opinion of the situation that you have put in front of us, for all of us to respond to.
Just because you do not like our answers does not mean we are harassing or stalking you.


In response to your question.
You can not use your disabilities as a crutch, as an excuse for your behavior.
Everyone is responsible for their own behavior and that includes you.
Even severely mentally challenged people have to answer for their actions. If they do something bad, get caught, go to court, found guilty by reason of insanity, they still have to answer for their actions. They go to prison, it may be a mental hospital, but still it is prison.

And if you want that college education to do you any good then you yourself are going to have to make that happen. Nothing is going to just fall into your lap.

And if this person pushed you 10 times and you pushed her back then don't sit and say "I didn't mean to", that is bullcrap, and your using your illness as an excuse.
There are very few of us that would sit and let someone push us 10 times and NOT push back.

You are using your illness and your living situation as a crutch to obtain sympathy from a bunch of strangers that have probably gone through just as much as you in their lives.

Get up off your butt, except responsibility for your own life, for your own actions and do something with your life.

2006-08-20 00:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 1 0

Well the only thing you can really do is pick up where you left off. Find a new job, a cheap place to live,etc. And kick the "mom" and your sister out of your life for good, you don't need those negative influences in your life. The less time you spend whining about it and the more time you spend doing something the better.

2006-08-20 00:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 2 1

wait if ur homeless how did u get a question on the computer? u had a right to push her if this really happened but i want to know where u got a computer if u got no money no place to live and so on...

2006-08-20 00:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1 0

You are 23 years old. You should be living on your own now anyway. Grow up and get a job. I saw your myspace page...I feel sorry for your twin. Sorry, but damn girl...you need to work out more.

2006-08-20 00:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by theGODwatcher_ 3 · 1 1

I would imagine that the biggest focus should be on attaining a job, and addressing the other concerns thereafter.

2006-08-20 00:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You can come and live with me and my Mommy. She makes a great hamburger helper, corn on the side, slice of white bread and Juicy Juice. Cant wait to see you.

2006-08-20 00:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

If you have no home, then from where are you typing this post?

2006-08-20 00:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by I'm Still Here 5 · 2 0

Thorazine shuffle in your future!

2006-08-20 00:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Wounded duckmate 6 · 1 1

I have not heard the whole story.

2006-08-20 00:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by James S 4 · 2 0

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