Theres this girl who lives right next door to me and i REALLY like her. We hang out every day at each others houses and we are pretty good freinds. We are both 15 and are in the same grade. I want to know if she likes me anything more then just a freind. She is better looking then me (im not THAT bad to look at, im just not a 10) We hug everytime we see each other and we joke around, but she does the same thing with the other nieghbors, but she is with me more then them. She always talks about other guys in front of me like im another girl. One night we DID make out and i got to third base, but its never happened again, we dont even talk about it (is that bad??)I'm not sure if it meant anything because she is kind of a s.lut,I hate to say that but i dont know a better word for what she is....but shes still really sweet though....SO I REALLY NEED HELP!!DOES SHE LIKE ME??how do i find out?im really shy and im afraid to ask because of what she might say.
sorry this was sooo long.
2006-08-19 17:17:54 · 17 answers · asked by pot_smoker4567 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me you should keep her as a friend. The "way she is" may be appealing to you now, but, have you thought about if you DID get with her?? She would probably continue to be "that way", and it would break your heart. If she wants you...she will come to you. She knows how you feel about her...believe me. Back off a bit!!
2006-08-19 17:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I've never seen a boy write this long!! OK here is my answer!! First of all if u want the girl to know what Ur really made of .. u need to be you!! that what attracts them the most and good looks...and second of all they look for confidence in a guy!! so u need to be confident enough and go tell her that u like her and also tell her if she likes you!!! dint be afraid.. she wont kill you and its not the end of the world...it might be good and it might be bad .. so what.. Ur a boy move on ..if it doesn't work out!! Oh and u also know that girls get as much nervous as you too when they like a guy...SO yeah go for it!!! good luck!!
~Rosie~
2006-08-20 00:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, if you're together all the time like that, you should ask her out to a movie or out for a drink or something like that... see how the date goes, and then if it goes really well... ask her out again.... then basically if you keep going out you're bf and gf...obviously...! Normally us girls will send out vibes if we like a guy... and if you guys got to... third base... then yeah she likes you! think of it this way... would you two go that far if she didnt whatsoever? And the worse thing she could say is NO!! and if she does, shes probably not worth it!
2006-08-20 00:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her right out in the open. But from someone who doesnt know either one of you
2006-08-20 00:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you honestly think she's a $lut then maybe you really shouldn't take it any farther. She might just be leading you on...and she might do this with every guy. If she don't want to talk about what happended it could be one of two things. either she's embarassed about it because she likes you or she don't want to talk about it because she's assamed.
2006-08-20 00:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by mommy911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at my school i hug the guys that are my close friends ask yourself if shes acting like she likes u then maybe she does but if she talks bout guys right in front of u its probably cuz she dont want u to now or maybe she dosent i dont now ask her get some guts
2006-08-20 00:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by #13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't go talk to her and ask her you are never going to find out. She may just look at you as a friend. If she is a s.l.u.t. then why do you want her so bad, I hope you aren't planning on just sleeping with her and ditching her! Talk to her and find out already!
2006-08-20 00:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay know you say that you like her and ya'll got to third base with her.... but you r not sure she likes you maybe you should give her some time maybe she Will come around!!! really if a girl lets you get to third she likes you it maybe a lil right now but she might need so time!!!!
2006-08-20 00:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by thisisallinyourhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ask her out for a walk and ask her how she thought of the experience. If she wasn't happy about it, ask her how/what differences she would like to have in the future.
2006-08-20 00:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by May 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL,I wouldn't fall in love with her,if she is a slut i wouldn't date her cuz she can cheat on u.if i waz u i wold go out and find someone else and make her jelious....if she really likes u she would get jelious because ur with another girl.still hang out with her tho but if she tries to make a move dont fall for it cuz she is trying to make u where u will cheat on ur g/f.and thats not good.all im sayin is if she really likes u she will ask u out,u dont ask her out.........LOVE,Courtney
2006-08-20 00:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by courtney t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋