My fiancé broke up with me recently. He felt that we both needed time to deal with our own problems w/o the distraction of each others problems(@ work & w/ a close friend, & an anxiety disorder & his best friend was nearly murdered) In the past two weeks we have improved a lot individually. He got a job & I have found an inner peace about a lot of things in my life. I made a decision to focus on what makes me happy in my life instead of what others want. The problem is that he asked if I wanted to be F buddies. Since then we have made love twice but other than our weekly meetings we keep our selves distant & don’t burden each other with each others problems. The sex is just as great if not better than it ever was. I went along with it originally b/c I love him, we have always had a good healthy enjoyable sex life, & it’s not like I am having sex with a guy I don’t know. we have been for a year. Should I think this through more? Could this harm our relationship more than help? Advice?
2006-08-19 17:15:35 · 5 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex and I were sex friends for about a year after our divorce, then when one of us found another partner, it would quit, that was our agreement, and we stuck to it, and to this day are still close friends. We were divorced in 1977. I think its a healthy thing for both the guy and the girl, you can be more picky with your next choice of partners. Good luck.
2006-08-19 17:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure go ahead and continue to give him sex with no attatchments because I am sure he still tells you that he loves you and will always love you but he is just not ready to be in the relationship with you yet.......
Please don't be naive any longer.... It really makes me just want to throw up..........
Do you honestly believe that he is going to ever get back together with you or even better, marry you???
WHY THE HECK WOULD YOU EVEN WANT TO MARRY THE GUY AFTER HE BREAKS UP WITH YOU AND THEN WANTS TO ONLY HAVE SEX?????
Seriously child, think about it long and hard. And if after all the time you spend thinking about it, you come to realize that it is okay, please do us all a favor and don't ever have any children, okay?
2006-08-20 00:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by shannon 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Speaking from personal experiances, its not a healthy thing to do if your working on rekindling your relationship. It is basically like starting from scratch and your new basis of the relationship now is sex. Keep it kosher, work on your feelings, then ease back into the rest.
2006-08-20 00:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your fiance broke up with you. So your good enough to fuc* but not to stay engaged to? Ex means Ex for a reason. How can you be engaged to someone and go backwards??? He's just having his cake and eat it too Now he's not promising any committment but he's using you for sex. Nice.
2006-08-20 00:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself for your future husband, but just let your ex-fiance do you in the sh*tpipe only okay?
2006-08-20 00:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋