He's all of that: Calls when he says he will, sends little notes, opens doors for you, etc. But when it comes time to "get busy," the guy just doesn't "measure up" (Ohhhhh no, don't go there!!) Ladies could you still date him despite his lack of sexual adventuredness? Why or why not?
2006-08-19 17:07:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely, if he's polite and attentive, he's a keeper. The other stuff can be taught ^_~
2006-08-19 17:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by starikotasukinomiko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how important sex is to *you*! I personally couldn't stay with a man who wasn't a great lover. But like doc_is said, that can be taught, provided it's just a matter of inexperience, he's willing to learn, and doesn't have any other issues that are blocking his interest in and enjoyment of sex. The fact that he has good manners and treats you like a human being, is very hard to teach someone past the age of, say, 12.
2006-08-20 00:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Freegrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...that is an excellent question. If I were into sex, I would be disappointed in "his lack of sexual adventuredness". Woman tend to go for a guy who has some experience and knows what to do to get them turned on.
2006-08-20 00:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've dated a guy that didn't know what he was doing before, but I still loved him. We ended up breaking up and I still don't know why. And he lived 2 hours away from where I lived.
2006-08-20 00:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by robinson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. It was ok at first, but after a while I got sexually frustrated. If you are brave enough, show him what you want. If he still doesn't get it, move on because you won't ever be happy.
2006-08-22 15:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by sexy.cece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the answers to your question personally encouraging. Thank you to all the kind ladies who replied.
2006-08-20 00:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by charley128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I would definitely date that guy. It's everything that a girl wants.
2006-08-20 01:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! Nice guys are easy to train!
2006-08-20 00:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by dizzygrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if we're talking majorly unskilled and small and stuff, then def not. but if we're talking a lil mishap here and theres no problem
2006-08-20 00:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by ELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...u can always train and believe me its better when u do cause u can get them to do anything YOU want them to do...u can also share in the exciting world of sexual experimentation...have fun
2006-08-20 00:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by sangwhich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋