I am trying to get a girlfriend & it is making me jelous b-cause I dont feel attractive. What should I do?

Answer 1

It's all about the grooming, my friend. No visible nose hair, clean nails, clear skin, shower daily, wear nice cologne--these are the things that will let a woman convince herself that you're worthy of dating. A good sense of humor and a show of self-confidence is also attractive in a man. Unless you have an extra limb growing out of your head, someone will come along. (some girls will even look past the weird extra limb sticking out of your head if that was the case)

Answer 2

Dude, bro honestly looks do matter, but that is not the case, here it is confidence that wins the game. I know for a fact you see couples all the time that don't belong together such as a fat dude with one of the hottest girls on the planet, and you think " how the hell did he pull that off". the key here is what you say to a woman when you meet her, your social skills, your sense of humor and you first impression. But all in all I know what going through, you have to get out there and approach women, strike up conversation, and get her number, you will learn through time.
See I use to think why don't girls appraoch me am I not attractive, but later I realized girls seldom appraoch men, some women think if they appraoch men it looks desperate, that is why you must go out and approach the ladies, they are pretty much waiting for you bro, so just go out there and get after it man , I know you can do it. if you want you can wait for her to come to you, but that may take a while. Good luck

Answer 3

It sounds like you need to do some deep introspection, because I can tell you honestly, with that attitude, a man who doubts himself is a tun off. You sound like you need more self confidence. If you come off sounding like you don't feel good about who you are, women pick up on that, and that sends them packing. Now, for something helpful: You may want to get involved in a group, or hit your local gym where you can engage in healthful activities that can help with the attractiveness factor, as well as put you in a position to meet others. Good luck :)

Answer 4

Looks are important in most people but what if you tried finding someone who excepts u for your personality? I'm trying not to sound like a hallmark card but be beautiful inside and it will show outside. The girl that does see that inner beauty is the one thats worthy of you. But you have to remember that you dont like being the one no one wants, so if the girl isnt what you call beautiful remember how you felt. hope I could help.

Answer 5

I think u should change the way u look or dress. Dont try too hard or over do it the right girl will come along soon, so be patient and try to be u to the fullest. Good luck

Answer 6

Figure out whats making you feel so unattractive and change it

is it your hair?
Your clothes?
Your weight?
Your teeth?

whatever is it make a drastic improvement!

if you have no sense of style maybe pick someone who is the same height as you, a celebrity. Like say Justin Timberlake or Kanye West and copy their style

Answer 7

Stop trying so hard! Sit back, chill, and relax. When you least expect it, you will find a girlfriend. But right now, you are coming across WAY too desperate!

Answer 8

Do try too hard, maybe start excercising or working out, that will make you feel better about yourself and give you confidence, therefore women will notice your attitude and perhaps your luck will change..

Answer 9

some girls don't care only about looks. Just have good matters and treat
girls nice and like ladies. inother words be a gentleman at all time around women and even little girls . don't cuss , be polite, and might even get a very good looking girl.

Answer 10

DON'T LOOK FOR A GIRL FRIEND , LET THE GIRLS COME TO YOU. IF YOU DON'T FEEL ATTRACTIVE MAY BE YOU SHOULD THINK OF SOME THINGS THAT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL ATTRACTIVE.. WORK ON YOUR SELF ESTEEM..