ok i have my bf he says he luvs me and all so i was sick right! and he went to this football game and one of my bffs says r u 2 still goin out? he says eeeeeeeewwwwwwwww no, hell no! and she calls me and tells me this news and i cried for awhile, then he calls me 10 min. later and says hay baby i luv u! r u feellin better? and then i was speechless wht 2 do? help big time plz! he said he will call me tomorrow wht 2 do???????
2006-08-19 17:01:46 · 24 answers · asked by Lexie girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've got to ask him if he really said that, otherwise your going have to believe your friend or not. You never know, she might have heard wrong. You NEED to ask him, just do it casually if he freaks out, and says "You don't trust me?", then just say you were wondering and your friends told you about the football game, and then tell him if he wants the relationship to work, if he doesn't then move on, he was fake anyways.
2006-08-19 17:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Summerbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with 'funnylilgirl' above on this one. It sounds like maybe you have a reputation? I don't mean to be rude, just truthful, but without a lot of info to go on. If so, the guys would tease him for dating instead of just a one nighter, if you know what I mean. If I got it wrong, then theres something else going on. I hope you make the right decision, but if I were you, either way, I'd dump him in a minute, but when I were that age, I would have wanted some kind of revenge, even though I'm a guy. lol
2006-08-20 00:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a hard call.... remember the telephone game? Things get misunderstood often times. Your friend may have misunderstood what he was saying, for instance, he may know its your bff, and was just playing around w/ her. If he was serious about it, its typically a guys way of cheating... she thinks im single, maybe i can get it too.... thats if he didn't know she was your bff.
2006-08-20 00:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring your friend out with you guys, but don't tell your boyfriend shes/hes coming. And watch him closely if he is really uncomfortable you'll know somethings up, but if he acts normal your friend could be lying. You'll have to trust your gut, jealous friends say and do stupid things just a much as a player.
2006-08-20 00:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Daz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes in denial!!....maybe he just doesnt want anyone to find out that you guys are going out. Or maybe because is ashamed of being in a relationship. You really have to ask him how he feels about you or else you will get hurt even more. And it comes down to whether to trust your friends or not.....
2006-08-20 00:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he really said that. If I were you I would believe your friend no matter what he says though, and kick him to the curb. More than likely this boy aint worth your time, and you need to find one who is, good luck
2006-08-20 00:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♥KP♥MH♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***! Tell him that if he's going to be such an asshole liar, that your through! He shouldn't be making up **** like that. your too good for him- just don't worry about him. There's WAY better guys in the world, sonever give up on love!
g-luck!
2006-08-20 00:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely let go of him. He do not deserve u and would probably hurt in the end. So take my advice, forget about him before it's too late. Gud luck
2006-08-20 00:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Shybe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfirend was looking for a little strange stuff after the game.
2006-08-20 00:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call tomorrow night. maybe the girl called to stir up drama, wait til you hear back from him. If its done, then it wasnt meant to be..Your young theres plenty of guys out there
2006-08-20 00:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋