im just wondering cuase im scared if someone ask me out they'll be joking so every time someone ask me out i say no a second later cuase im scared that they'll just date me then get stuff out with me and joke aorund with their friends. or somthing.
2006-08-19 16:50:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Plenty of guys like bigger girls. And if they ask you out, why not give them a chance? I'm sure you are lovely, and have tons going for you, not only your body.
My husband happens to be crazy about my size 20 figure.
2006-08-19 16:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tina K 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I was you 2 years ago. I never went out on dates, ever, because I thought the same way you do. Unfortunately I was 32 (yeah, that's right, 32) before I went on my first date. No prom, no socials, nothing during high school. I was convinced I'd be an old maid - not because of lack of male interest, but because I was afraid of the aftermath. Would there be jokes? Would there even be another phone call? Then I finally realized that I was treating myself like dirt by expecting those things. I learned to radiate confidence even when I was scared to death, and I began to really feel it! Don't be like me and let half your life go by before you stop being scared and take a chance. I feel like I allowed myself to miss out on a lot of great things just because I was afraid of what people might think. Personally, I got lucky with my Paulie - we met at work, clicked, and I asked HIM out that night. To my shock, he said yes, and we've been together since - our 2 year anniversary is October 15th. He loves me just the way I am and even gets mad when I call myself chubby. I wear a 20, so I am a chubber. The point to all of this is, yes, guys do. You just have to find the one who can see who YOU are, not WHAT you THINK you are. When it comes right down to it, the biggest obstacle is yourself. Once you can accept and love you, others will flock to you to love you too. I wish you all happiness, truly, and hope you find someone who will appreciate you.
2006-08-19 20:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by ReeRee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see men don't do that when they are out of school because they have nothing to prove. In school is a different thing kids are cruel. I turned a guy down when i was in school because i thought i would be the butt of his joke. a few years later i saw him and was joking about that topic and turned out it wasn't a joke. So you never really know. As far as adults go... their not going to do things like that, because simply... they're adults! So take a risk, my advise is don't be a lamb. Be nice but don't be a slave then you'll see who they are and not make an @ss out of yourself! Best wishes!
2006-08-19 17:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently at least some do. My husband (who is wicked hot and completely awesome) totally digs me, and I am QUITE voluptuous. I used to be concerned that guys were just asking me out as a joke too, only to find out later that they were serious and I kinda hurt their feelings when I laughed in their face as a defense mechanism. I think that chances are, if a guy asks you out, he is probably being genuine. The guys who would do it as a joke just to be hurtful would probably just keep things simple and chuck french fries at you or something. :p Take a chance and say yes. You could find your beautiful reubanesque self in the arms of prince charming! I did. ;)
2006-08-19 17:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by LadyGeektastic 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes, first know that all the thin girls are not get loved. I am telling that because love does not happen by seeing the figures. the way you behave, the way you spoke and the way you receive others and many more. So there are guys who like fat girls
2006-08-19 21:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by universal friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do, I don't have a problem with that. I'm sure you are a beautiful person and I would be proud to ask you on a date. It's not whats on the outside, what's on the inside is important to me. Can I ask you somthing? Will you go out with me next Friday.
2006-08-19 16:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Of course lots of guys like larger ladies, but lets face it, who wants a guy that only wants u for your figure?
If they really like you for you then go on the dates adn have a great time, but if they are chubby lovers thats as bad as guys who only date girls with big boobs etc.
Most guys are not as shallow as media would have us believe and genuinally like girls for their personalities, if these guys are asking you out, go and found out for yourself what they are really like.
2006-08-19 19:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of guys who like big girls. i mean, mot all fat girls are single. give the guys a chance. besides, some one by the name of james b just asked you out three hours ago!!!
2006-08-19 20:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by laylay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the guy and Other people need to see that fat people are the same as skinny people but not all people think of this so ya guys do care on girls appearance.
2006-08-19 17:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I believe there are still guys who consider what's inside rather than what they see on the surface...cheer up, there's someone out there for you.
2006-08-19 20:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋