of course,one is right here,i'm looking for a special someone to be with,i don't care about running around with just who ever.i did enough of that when i was younger,now i want to be happy and content
2006-08-19 16:55:39
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answer #1
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answered by ccrider4u 2
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You ask another person to give and you must be willing to give also. A relationship is a 2-edged sword you know. If a relationship involves REAL love, all of those things will be present. That is a fact. If the love is not real and is something else, then any or all of the above things you spoke of will not be present for very long. The problem is, very few people actually know what love it. They know lust and vanity and egocentricity and entitlement and taking and not giving---but not love.
The Desiderata
Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble, it's a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.
2006-08-19 23:50:04
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answered by Tony T 4
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You don't mention your age but in general they are out there but they are few and far between any more these days.
It seems like all they want to do is screw and run.
I've been around for a few years and when I was younger it was unheard of to cheat on a girl. If you didn't want to be with her anymore you talked about it and broke up before seeing someone else.
If you were older and I were younger, I could help you out.
2006-08-19 23:43:39
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answered by wetsaway 6
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I have done this in At least three relationships, and have been used, walked on and lied too each time. Now I just want to live alone. I think I will be happier.
2006-08-19 23:43:03
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answered by Big hands Big feet 7
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When you find him let me know. You think you know your mate and you are the one for him but can to find out it somebody else that normal looks 50x worse i mean if Halle Berry got cheated on what makes you think you can't
2006-08-19 23:44:00
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answered by eva 2
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Yes as I have always be faithful and true to the one I love. I am what is known as a true Southern gentleman.
2006-08-20 01:13:11
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answered by toughguy2 7
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i hope to high heaven that there is. If no guy answers yes, Im going 2 date women...
2006-08-19 23:41:19
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answered by Cynnie 3
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Yes, there are such guys out there. The same could be said about women too.
2006-08-19 23:42:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Yeah, only because I'm secure with myself, and have no need or desire to be possessive or controlling.
2006-08-19 23:44:08
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answered by rrticulate1 3
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Thats me
2006-08-19 23:41:28
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answered by Richie 4
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