I have finally found a guy that i feel i can commit to and be with for a long time and we're really good friends at this point and we have hooked up and all but me being the person i am and over analyzing it i am having second thoughts about a relationship it has nothing to do with him because more than anything i want to date him but then i just think about everything else that would get in the way with it what do i do
2006-08-19 16:28:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whether you think this will be a successful relationship or not, you will be right.
Your actions are guided by your feelings. So are his.
You will know how he feels by the way he treats you.
If you doubt him or yourself, it will show in your actions. It may annoy him or hurt him if he thinks you doubt him.
Quit second guessing yourelf or others will, too. Quit worrying about your relationship and start enjoyng it.
Don't start worrying unless his actions and how he treats you don't match how he says he feels about you.
Oh, and your gut is smarter than you and more objective, so listen to it. Your intuition never makes excuses for anyone.
It's that simple.
2006-08-19 16:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most important question is: if what you are thinking about more important to you than he is? If the answer is yes then he is not the one at this time; and if the answer is no - then you need to decide whether you just got cold feet! I have been told that I overthink to the point that I miss the point!@
2006-08-19 16:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is more important then following your heart.so fallow your heart not your head when it comes to love
2006-08-19 16:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then, I hope you only think about me once!
2006-08-19 16:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋