I really like this girl......?

Question

but the problem is, shes my best friends sister, i believe she is the One for me but i dont know if she feels the same way and when i try to talk to her brother about it he just tells me to "Move and and close the book on it its not worth ruining a perfectly good friendship over" now i dont know if should just go with my heart and ask her to go out sometime or if i should just leave it be, the other problem is i cant ever get her to go anywhere alone with me, her brother or something always has to go...what do i do.

Answer 1

Okayy,
So dont listen to all those snotty answers from people! Dang they must have no heart. That is a sweet story and i know what u mean. My friends have gone through it an i am in a somewhat similar position! Dont get over her, go for it.. if you have a thing for her, take a chance! Go for the risk, i am constantly taking risks and they work out a lot of times. You wont ruin the friendship, if they are reallyy good friend with you, they'd never not be your friend for liking someone, you can't really help your feelings now can you! haha

I'll tell you my story, maybe it just mayy help a little..
It makes me seem reallyy stupid, but yeahh::

okayy so there is this kidd i like a lot and he is soo swet and just like everything perfect, but there is kinda a slight problem, he is 13 and i just barely turned 15.. i know sounds weird.. but he doesn't act his age, he acts wayy older. But that's not the problem. There is this guy that likes me, A LOT.. i have no idea why though, but i told him that i didn't want a relationship to let him down easy.. But then i met this guy whom i like and i want a relationship, i dont wanna hurt the other guy cause he is my really good friend and i dont want to ruin the relationship, you know what i mean?? plus, all these people keep telling the guy i like [13 year old] lol not to like me.. and its really bugging me. He isn't listening to them and he likes me. but i dont want to hurt the other guy.. But my solution is to go for the relationship.. i like him and the other guy if he is a good friend would understand!!!


Plus, if you dont think she likes you.. keep trying, it takes people time! A lot of people are under stress or may not know who to look for.. sooner or later theyy may like you!! plus, u seem sweet, why wouldn't she not like you?

Answer 2

Hmmm, well, maybe you should tell him that you'd like to go on a date alone with her.

It does have the potential to ruin your friendship with him. Just try to be good to her. If you have to end the relationship for whatever reason, try to do it tastefully. That way you may be able to save the friendship on both levels. :)

Answer 3

You did not give any ages here so how is anyone even attempt to give you advise. Rethink this whole question and write specific, precise information leaving out all the boring details that have no meaning.

Answer 4

ive gone through this alot if i were u i would go to where ur heart desires because letting it be would be a mistake and haount u forever because wht if she really is the one
also to get her alone just ask her if u and her cn be alone and tell her brother if he wont go with u to to hwere ever u go
u cnt email me at [e-mail] if u hav ?"S

Answer 5

if she doesn't want a man like you i do
tell her maybe she feels the same way
her brother is a *** [god has a plan for him]

Answer 6

blah blah blah so what go tell her already
this question is gettin so tired..why do u always ask what do i do, tell the girl already grow up n move on

Answer 7

I say go for it
you'r friend would
if you have a good lookin sista

Answer 8

MAKE THE BEST OF THE SITUATION THE RIGHT MOMENT MAY GIVE YOU THE COURAGE TO FIND OUT WHERE YOU STAND

Answer 9

choose your friendship or the girl then do what ever you want

Answer 10

follow your heart