what, in your experience, is the best way to make a guy want you? i know there are times when you feel like 'f*ck it' and make all the mistakes your not suppose to make................i have been there and now i'm a little out of the game.............
so ladies, how do i make this one guy want me bad???????
2006-08-19 16:08:31 · 23 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well they seem to flock to me, not sure why but i think its bc i know i am hot yet i dont act like i care too much about what they think about me, and i dont play with the kids u know what i mean the ones who think they can hit it n quit it, no that is my game , so try that n see if it works ..act like u dont care if he likes u so much always be the first to walk away n leave em wantin more
2006-08-19 16:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHY DO YOU WANT TO TRY TO MAKE HIM LIKE YOU SO BAD? IS HE WITH ANOTHER GIRL THAT YOU WANT TO GET BACK AT?
YOU CAN'T MAKE ANYONE LIKE YOU, YOU WILL ONLY ANNOY THEM.
DON'T PUT OUT TO TRY TO MAKE GUYS LIKE YOU EITHER. THEY WILL ONLY LOSE RESPECT AND THINK YOU ARE TOO EASY....AND YOU WILL BE KNOWN AS A BICYCLE.
IF THIS GUY WAS INTO YOU, YOU WOULDN'T HAVE TO TRY HARD TO GET HIS ATTENTION.
COMPLIMENT SOMETHING ABOUT HIM, AND ASK HIM A FEW OPEN-ENDED QUESTIONS. IT SHOWS YOUR INTEREST WITHOUT PLAYING ANY GAMES. ALL GUYS HAVE EGOS AND WANT TO BE NOTICED IN A FAVORABLE LIGHT. DON'T TRY TO TRICK OR DECEIVE HIM BY MISREPRESENTING YOURSELF.
GAME PLAYING BECOMES APPARENT AND YOU LOSE POINTS WITH PEOPLE. SHOW SOME RESPECT TO PEOPLE TO EARN THEIRS.
GIRLS HAVE BIG EGOS, TOO. THEY ENJOY THE THRILL OF THE CHASE, THE CHALLENGE OF WINNING A GUY'S APPROVAL. IT VALIDATES THEM. MAKES THEM FEEL MORE POWERFUL AND WORTHY.
ESPECIALLY IF THEY CAN OUTDO ANOTHER GILR AND WIN THAT GIRL'S BOYFRIEND'S ATTENTION, AND DISTRACT HIM AWAY FROM HIS GIRLFRIEND.
IS THAT WHAT YOU ARE DOING, OR DO YOU REALLY KNOW THIS GUY WELL, AND APPRECIATE HIM FOR HIS MANY REDEEMING QUALITIES?
2006-08-19 23:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be asking ladies for help. It drives men crazy when you play "hard to get". My motto is that if I gotta fight for it-no, not sex- than I will just move on. If you know the guy, just understand that he too is a little timid. Hard to get is not the way. TRUST ME! There are plenty of good/bad guys/girls to be chasing and playing these childisn and immature games.
2006-08-19 23:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by James S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh the mind of a man.. sometimes it is so simple and other times, well they just drive you crazy!
Try playing one of their famous games.. Be a "bad girl"
You know how most of us are more attracted to the "bad boys".. you know the ones that treat us not so great but know when to treat us just right!!
Try playing that little game. Some interest but not too much and if you feel him "slipping away" then turn on the charm and pull him back in.
Good Luck girl!! It's not easy..lol
2006-08-19 23:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to sound cruel(am being totally honest) but you don't sound like a person with much confidence and without the confidence and self-love, you will always attract the kind of people that are not good for you. but if you just want to play the game and have some good #@*?..., sure there are tons of gimmicky things you can buy or rent just to make any breathing man "want" you.
2006-08-19 23:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't see him everyday, don't let your world revolve around him. Men like confident independent women. When you show him that you don't need him, he gets nervous and starts chasing after you. You wake up that hunter instinct all men have. Go out with your girlfriends, enjoy your hobbies, show him that he's not the only thing in the world that makes you happy.
2006-08-19 23:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by Gabi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I were you I would dress in something comfy, yet sexy, that way if your guy notices you he'll feel like a fool if he doesn't get you into his arms, he'll be missing out on something no one else can give him, but the love, and compassion you may get to spend with him. He may even feel the same way, all you have to do is go and talk to him, and before you know it you'll maybe be in his arms!!!!
2006-08-19 23:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by mblab13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should just be yourself. Don't ever put on a front for a guy! That's never good. I have tried to make a guy like me and I looked so stupid. It turnes out that the guy liked me for who i was.
2006-08-19 23:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by Libby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, dont dress all slutty for him, that just attracts him to your body, not to you as a person. Guys go crazy for girls that are confident, show him that you like who you are and aren't afraid of what people think about you. and talk to him, dont be afraid to strike up a conversation. always works for me.
2006-08-19 23:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by marissa_iz_tall 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are then he isn't worth it. You shouldn't have to find ways to make him want you... if he wants you, you'll know. cause if you pretend you are going to get fed-up of doing so one day and then what will happpen
2006-08-19 23:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by Rat Eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋