If a girl hits her bf, is it ok if he hits her back even if its not hard enuff 2 draw blood or make a bruise?

Question

I hit my friend,(kinda more than a friend) earlier 2day when i was in a pissy mood and he kinda punched me in the jaw with an open fist, now my cousins wanna jump him, but honestly it didnt hurt that much, but they still wanna beat him up

I stumbled a little bit when he hit me, and he called me a ***** and told me i better not ever hit him again, this is the 1st time he has ever lost his temper with me

Answer 1

Call me old fashioned (51), a man should never raise his hand to a woman regardless of the indiscretion. A woman who raises her hand against a man has issues which should be dealt with before the relationship progresses.

Answer 2

I would agree that all was fair, but not in the face. Everyone bellyaches about equality nowadays, so when a girl hits or punches a guy, I'm all for a little payback. There are limits. Few of my rules would be - no closed fist, no face, you draw blood or leave a bruise, you went too far.

Answer 3

The only hit a guy should ever, ever do is a playful hit. He hit you and it isnt right. Im sorry but you're cousins have a good idea but they shouldnt jump him..they should scare him a lil. I'm sorry but i really dont believe in a man ever hitting a woman..unless its a playful lil hit. As i said before. I hope he doesnt do it again.

Answer 4

Its not alright to hit a woman in IMO. Apologizing can be a commence. the purely time that it would want to be perfect isn't any matter if it truly is affectionate play combating (like couples do), and that is with particularly a lot no rigidity. yet hitting a lady with motive to reason soreness is a No No i think

Answer 5

by the rules I was raised, you never ever hit a woman. However that does not give a woman the right or privilige to strike a man. If my girlfriend hit me, I'd be looking for a new girlfriend the next day.

Answer 6

did he punch you or slap you back!!!!!
if you hit why shouldn't he slap you back!!
If you don't want to get hit don't hit
you both have issues that need to be addressed. You both have a problem with anger!!!
in all rights he should haven't hit you becasuse he should have self control but he shouldn't just sit there and be a punching bag for you!! Maybe he should walk away from you cause you are going to cause him more troble than your worth with the attitude you showed him!!!

Answer 7

my mom used to tell me never hit a girl, unless she hits u.
she would say if she wants to act like a man then she should be treated like one. u should get treated with as much respect u give somelse.
in a court of law u would get in trouble, because u made the first contact.

maybe he didn't like when u hit him. just cause u was in a pissy mood doesn't give u the rt.

Answer 8

ok this question is complicated cuz in the face isn''t good, BUT I have always played rough with my guy friends, to mme if a girl hits a guy they should be prepared to get popped back, my guy friends hit me and leave bruises but I don the same to them, bruises bite marks lil nail cuts. but we're some crazy kids, as long as ur just playing its all good but if he hits you in anger then thats wrong

Answer 9

No, it is never ok for a guy to hit a girl. Also, it is not ok for a girl to hit a guy without a really good reason, but because of size and muscle structure and such, it is NEVER ok for a guy to hit a girl.

Answer 10

A man should never, ever hit a woman
End of story