I'm Welsh & Japanese and I constantly get the, "Ow. You're Japanese? That is so hot." Why? Why is that hot?
2006-08-19 15:45:34 · 38 answers · asked by jae3646 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My dear I wish you the best in your relationship choices - be very careful.
I say this because I too am an ethnic woman in a predominantly White town and have been told thousands of times that I am exotic. In Western society (my Sociology Prof agreed with me on this) any woman who is not of the majority race is considered to be "exotic" a term which is as demeaning as it can be flattering, is considered to be a rare gem of a woman who also happens to be quite horny. Great sex. "Me love u long time"
Would be nice to be treated as a human being sometime, wouldn't it?!?!?!
Good luck, stay away from pandering mo-fos!
2006-08-19 17:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jehan J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been to Thailand a number of times and now have a g/f there. It would be easy to give the usual standard answer about Asian women being 'exotic', whatever that is suposed to mean. For me, the appeal is, and always has been, much more to do with the character of the people, but especially the women, from that part of the world. However, sadly, many men mistake the genuine honesty and loyalty of women from that part of the world for subservience, which is of course completely wrong. I made it clear to my g/f, that if she were to come and live here with me as my wife until I retire, which is part of our plan, that I would expect her to go out to work. This is not because I want her to bring money home, but because I do not want her to stay in the house like a slave all day, but rather because I want her to have a life and freinds of her own. I want us to sit down to dinner in the evening, which I'm happy to cook, and talk about our respective days at work and so on. I openly admit that by most conventional (UK) standards, my g/f is not the best looking woman on the planet, but when I look at her, what I see is the beautiful woman within, which is what to me is so appealing about Asian women. If as an Asian woman, you have problems with guys describing you as being 'hot' because you are Asian, just tell them to go away and get a life, or take the time and trouble to visit your country and find out first hand about your culture. Only then will they be able to respect you for who and what you really are.
2006-08-19 17:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by geminipetelondon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am lucky enough to be married to a beautiful Asian girl. Before then I dated women from all races. I liked all beautiful women. I do not know if I prefer Asian women as a whole but I did get lucky with my wife.
She and I have had the discussion about why a lot of guys like Asian girls so much. We discount the idea that they are passive or "horny" as repulsive and racist. As far as exotic goes, I am from Oklahoma City where there is a large Asian population so Asian women are not necessarily unique.
We believe it is because Asian women are more feminine than other races as a whole. My wife is a perfect example, she is a successful professional women yet she is always very famine. The same could be said of her mother and sisters. American women have devolved into being parodies of men, believing this makes them independent, it just makes them undesirable as a long term partner.
2006-08-19 16:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy that from the first time stepped on Asian soil ,(Singapore)fell in love with Asian ladies.. Since then, Philippines Malasia and now Thailand I just love the way Im treated,,,They are so small and cute and KNOW HOW TO SMILE. I am married to a Thai lady.
2006-08-19 15:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hot because they are inadequate, they suffer from a limited vocabulary.
I can only assume that the word hot substitutes for the word 'attractive,' or, maybe means 'you are presently on the list of what is In.' Just wait a while, and you'll begin to be on the 'Out' list.
2006-08-19 16:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im going to save you the trouble, but im asian, i dont look like the stereotypical one but still am, and i have a thing for mixed asians because you guys look incredibly attractive. To answer your question, why are some guys hot to you? People have preferences, black, white, asians, hispanics...ect.
2006-08-19 15:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asian chicks have a very exotic look. They have interesting features which make them look stunning and different. What makes them Asian gives them appeal ; they have a very pretty look.
2006-08-19 18:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by skeetejacquelinelightersnumber7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose because their beautiful - with their perfect completion, beautiful hair, and pretty eyes. I must say that I was blessed with none of that. Be very happy that you are told that you are hot - I can't see that being to much of a bad thing.
2006-08-19 15:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right, white guys especially are very turned on by asian girls. I think it is because they have such a delicate beauty. They are pretty, but because they almost have a porcelain, fragile beauty look it makes men feel strong to be with them.
2006-08-19 15:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This reason is believed primarily because of the fact that Asians seem to be the most horny (See the many adult paradises of Taiwan).
2006-08-19 15:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋