I have been dating this guy for 3 years. His mother and I are very good friends for 10 years. Prior to him dating me he live with his ex for 6.5 years he caught her cheating. Since that time we starting dating his mother, myself and he agreed we would not discuss each other; however, I know from both they disucss me but I can not discuss them. He is a real nice guy he treats when we go out, he buys me and my son gifts. Also we took our first vacation together last month but he never told any of his friends he went a way with me. I have introduced him to some of my friends, yet he has not introduced me to his friends. Lastly, he talks and shows pics of his friends all the time. He tells me about parties that he when to with his friends and their girls but never invites me or introduces me to them. Should I be concerned?
2006-08-19 15:40:54 · 6 answers · asked by mypearls1920 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes...theres a reason why he hasnt introduced you to his friends and you should ask him why
2006-08-19 15:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by panda64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has rules.. and you have rules you have to follow. Sounds also like he is not meeting you 1/2 way on some issues. Dating him for 3 years is quite a while to not even know his friends or be invited to any of these parties. I think its way past time he acknowleges your presence amongst his friends. This sounds very strange. Almost like he is living 2 lives. One with you at his convience and one with his friends. In my opinion they should intertwine.. at least once in a while. I wish you the best luck, however.. you need to talk to him and get some things straighten out. I guess if it were me.. my main concern would be.. 1. is he cheating. 2. is he ashamed of something. I would have to find out the answers to that before I could continue on with the relationship. Do you love this guy? If so.. then get your answers.. if you dont.. then let him go and live his other life and get on with yours. Good Luck.
2006-08-19 22:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you talk to him about all of this. I personally would be concerned. So what can you lose? Either he can say "I don't want you around" and you can leave him or "well I didn't really know you wanted to go" and start inviting you. No sense in dragging it out, just bring it up-and do it out of the blue so you get an honest and not a premeditated answer.
2006-08-19 22:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by mysonsablessing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes yes yes!!!! But ask him. if you can't ask him a simple question then you should not be together. Tell him what you are expecting out of this relationship. And tell him you will talk about him with who ever you choose even his Mother.
2006-08-19 22:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by anne04char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a mature woman with 1 brain cell in your head you will know that this is dysfunctional. Do we lose our capacity to think around guys? What is up with that? They just aren't that great.
2006-08-19 22:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think u should be concerned cuz i've been with my bf for 3 months and 19 days and he has my pics on his websites im the screensaver on his cell and computer he got my pics in his room we live in georgia and his family in louisiana kno about me i met his friends and his parents and brother and sisters love me and u kno wat we only 17 so yea i think u should be concerned
2006-08-19 22:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋