how do i deal with my mom when she doesn't accept that i have a girlfriend?

Question

she said tha she would never accecpt it

Answer 1

Depends on how old you are.....mom has to accept it sooner or later, provided that you're old enough and that you can take care of yourself.

A good compromise for you would be to not try and force mom to meet your girlfriend, and for mom to let you go out...this way you don't have to push mom into accepting what she doesn't want to accept plus you don't have to lie to her about your whereabouts when you go out....Good luck

Answer 2

I wonder how old you are, some children are too young for relationships. Look around you at all the messed up people in relationships.
Seek wisdom first, learn about people.
This is an easy thing for me to say because I am old enough now not to be pushed around by my hormones.
I just wish someone had told me this when I was young, and I might have heeded it.
Because they didn't I had to experience a lot of headache and heartaches before I got the message.
I do not have enough information about you to form a solid oppinion.
I actually have a question burning in my mind, are you a girl with a girlfriend? , that poses another kind of problem, I would not judge that, but it could be a problem with family members.

Answer 3

Heather...
Are you talking about being in a same sex relationship ?
You will always be your moms baby..It is hard on a mother to see their child grow up and then find out that they are not following the"norm" .. it will take her time to come to terms with that ..
There are many places that offer assistance in discussing with your parents your "coming out "
Coming out to your family is often very scary and an incredibly brave thing to do. Make sure you are ready. There are real risks involved in coming out because not everyone is willing to accept homosexuality. However, hiding your sexual orientation keeps the important people in your life from knowing a big part of you, which many people find lonely and isolating. Take your time in deciding if you want to come out. You should not feel at all pressured to tell anyone until you are ready. Some gay teens say that, after they came out, they became much closer to their parents-they often say that it was a relief not to be keeping a secret any longer. But some teens know that their parents are not ready to hear about their sexual orientation, and they worry that their parents may treat them unfairly if they were to find out. Be as open and honest with your parents as you feel comfortable being.

The worst thing you could do is to close her out of your life. That would hurt her deeply and in the long run you even more...

All the Best

Answer 4

i think u need to sit down and talk to ur mom and ask her y she dosent accecpt... and just talk to her

Answer 5

Be assertive. Tell her to stop whining because you are not a mama's boy anymore. You are a grown man, and capable of making your own choices and your own decisions.

Answer 6

Sounds like you are telling her that you are Lesbian. You don't have to deal with her.......it is her business on how she feels about it......just like it is your business that you are a lesbian. Respect her right to feel the way she does and just do your life.......and stop waving the flag on this.......no one cares!

Answer 7

Dude, your mom needs a shrink.

Answer 8

What a mamas boy.

Answer 9

She will come around.

Answer 10

well if you are a boy something is wrong. if you are a girl... something is wrong also.