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Question

I'm positive there's an easy answer to this but I'll explain anyway. I'm really bad at meeting people, let alone finding a bf. Shy, nervous, either or both would be the reason why I'm that way. I'm late to this whole IM thing (among other things) but I'm getting use to it and really meeting some nice people on it. Problem: a guy is saying the right things and telling me things that actually makes me feel good about myself. I know I'm getting wrapped up in things I probably shouldnt be doing and the way this person is making me feel, it just feels good. I'm not nervous about talking to him and even with all the common sense I have, I'm unsure of how far I would go with this. It might just be the need I have for wanting what almost everyone else my age has, but it seems like things are twenty times harder for me to get them.

I guess my question is, should I just stop talking to him or is there a way to just talk and make friends, meet people without being foolish about it?

Answer 1

So have you met someone online that you really like? That's good, but as I'm sure you know, you have to be really careful about who you are talking to, etc. etc, which you've probably heard a thousand times before.
I personally can relate because I have been in similar situations, and all in all, it's nice to have someone say things that make you feel good about yourself, but you should always remember that if a guy makes you uncomfortable, it is okay to stop talking to him. A lot of people online can be fun to talk to again and again as friends, especially in game leagues or chat rooms, where everyone is familiar.
Tell the guy you like what your goals are... and if you just want to be friends, he should be understanding. Personally, I would be careful starting any kind of relationship with a person you don't know very well, because it is way too easy to be let down and hurt.
I think it's great to make friends online, as long as you are having fun and being comfortable with your choices.
And as far as being "behind" goes... Dont worry! You have plenty of time to straighten things out and work on other areas of your life!
Hope I helped!

Answer 2

Well, I think you're not foolish. Just a little insecure like me. I had the same problems too. I had no problem talking to people but if the people I am talking to hits the right buttons, then its thumbs up for me and I get wrapped up in it. I know I shouldn't feel this way because I don't really know the person.
But anyway, you should continue to make friends and be yourself.

Answer 3

Well thats easy if you go to a school then get a guy from your school if you don't go to a school then get a guy from somewhere you go.
DON"T hook up with a guy you just met on the coumpture~!~!~!~ that is the dumbest thing you can do Be safe!
Or get with a friend you like and try that or go some where new and just go for it you never know oyur sole mate could be right under you nose

Answer 4

Basing on how you asked this, I would say is your zodiac sign doing the problems. I would say you may be a cancer for the are the most shy, but you may not be. If you search for what your sign means, maybe try to work harder, and try to be more chancy to meet people. All these things may have an effect. You could also try that eHarmoney thing if thats what your looking for.

Answer 5

Well if you don't give out personal info, you can talk forever and still be safe. If you don't want to go all the way, then don't meet the person. Get out of your comfort zone and go meet people in your area face-2-face in a safe environment (church, gym, etc) instead of over the net, cause over the net you're not fully sure what you're getting

Answer 6

You seem to suffer from low self esteem. It is unlikely as hell that you will meet anyone worthy of your time on here. I find that distance is largely to blame ( crazy people should also be factored into this equation,) now I am no mathmatician, but the probability is like next to none. My advice, college, work, church, or coffee shops. Good Luck that is it!

Answer 7

Next question please..Na...Why would you want to stop talking with him? You are kind of friends now, Of cause he might not be the person you think they are, It could be a girl or anything. If you want to meet him, and I don't recommend it then, get him to meet you in a public place for a coffee....

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Sounds like you should build up your self esteem and confidence before you go full fledged into the dating scene. Many guys say things for certain reasons, you have to build trust in your relationship and in the guy so that in the future you dont have issues having doubts. Good luck!!

Answer 10

if you know this guy (have seen him face to face, not just pictures and iming)then go ahead. never meet anyone you have met online, especially if your a girl and young.