he came over one night, and i guess you could say we were kind of getting into it. he started to unzip my pants and i said no but he kept going. we're only in highschool! i was confused and overwhelmed and i didn't know what to do. i pushed him off and told him no. he got mad and left my house.
i know it was kind of a letdown for him.. but i'm not sure if he was just being a GUY or being a jerk..
help me please?
(this is a repeated question only because i need more help)
2006-08-19 15:15:04 · 11 answers · asked by lia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are jerks. Some are more sensitive then others. Time for a new boyfriend.
2006-08-19 15:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to back off, this was definately inappropriate and kudos for you for standing up for yourself! that takes a lot. remember: the flower of your virginity is something that should only be shared with someone you love and who loves you back. if he's mad at you because you wouldn't put out, then he's not a very good friend then, is he? If he tries something again, or starts spreading rumors about this, get help from a teacher, consiler, or parent. don't worry about getting in trouble, they will be happy that you stood up for your rights. Also, if you tell your dad, you can be sure he gets what he deserves (wink, wink)
god bless
2006-08-19 15:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by bubblepup13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you're not comfortable and ready to do,especially at this young age. Sex is something special, it should be shared between two people in love. Don't do it just to protect his feelings, he's not thinking of your feelings if he got mad because you wouldn't have sex with him.
2006-08-19 15:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lana L. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if a guy can't be with you without having sex, that's what he's looking for, not a relationship. If you wanna wait, he should respect that and not push you into something you don't want to.
2006-08-19 15:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Just Breathe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, you're not ready. Make sure you make it clear to him that you're not ready so he's not expecting something different though - don't lead him on. If he can't respect that you're not ready and insists on pressuring you, get rid of him. Today it's sex tomorrow he'll be a PITA about getting his way with something else.
2006-08-19 15:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give him sum time and he will forget in the mean time go out with your friend have sum fun go to the mall, the movies.
2006-08-19 15:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Giraffe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him-he only cares about himself
2006-08-19 15:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does he love you?
Or Does he LUST you?
he had no reason to get mad.
2006-08-19 15:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by starmub 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not just "being a guy", he was being an *** and for that you should dump him.
2006-08-19 15:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by Damn Dirty Ape 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have sex with him. You know you love him too, don't you?
2006-08-19 15:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by ?Bob?NYC? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋