My girlfriend who I loved dearly, and still do left me about a month ago. She has been seeing someone else but she still calls me all the time. The other day her current boyfriend found out that she and I were still talking (although still not together). I told her that I loved her but that I would stay out of her life if i was causing her problems. She said no and that if he had a problem with she and I talking he would be out the door. Why would she care so much about talking to me? If she is so willing to drop him rather than stop talking to me why doesnt she just do it and the two of us reconcile?
2006-08-19 15:12:43 · 20 answers · asked by arikinder 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe she cares about u a lot and still loves u...but wants to c whats out there u know?
before she gets commeted to one person
but i have this feeling u 2 will get back together becuse if she is willing to break up with her current bf for u that means a lot
but why did she break up with u what was the reason what did she say?
if she was over a fight or something u did she doesnt like she might get over it and get backto gether with u later
if she said she wants to c other ppl then i guess its like what i said at the begining
~ok hope that helps ♥...
2006-08-19 15:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by hotloverxo328 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A girl knows when she has a good thing going on. This guy may make up for what you lacked and you are making up for this guy's shortcomings. By saying what she said, she sort of admitted that she'd take you over him anyday. Not sure why she said that, but it's a little obvious that she still cares deeply for you. Maybe things just didn't work out in the romantic department. I have friends like that. Back in highschool I dated one of the greatest men I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. We kissed one time and it was like kissing my brother...something just didn't click. Needless to say, I'm married, he's married, but we are still the best of friends. Sometimes life just works that way honey. Don't let your heart and it's wishes give you false hope. I think you are reading too much into this looking for some sort of sign that just isn't there. Maybe in the future...but not now.
2006-08-19 15:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, but needs time for something else to see how much you'll stand by - OR - she wants to have you as a friend only and is smart enough to not take someone else telling her who she can and cannot talk to.
If you've only been apart 1 month - she's moved on way to quick and hasn't given herself enough time to adjust to changing loyalties.
Even if you do reconcile, you need to step back from where you were and restart the whole thing - romane, dancing, dinner, quiet walks - whatever, just step back and take it slower
2006-08-19 15:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want any one that broke up with you. I assurance you that she should not have any recognize for you for those who simply accepted her back after she broke your heart. Show some self-appreciate, and tell her she made her decision when she walked far from you, and now you consider it is better in case you keep your distance. Make her respect you, stop the communique. She has no longer had any time to miss you, due to the fact you still permit her to maintain in touch. Let her pass over you, after which maybe in time if the two of you come to a decision that your breakup was once a mistake, let her come to you. Be a man, supply her some time to have an understanding of what she did. If you happen to love her, you want her to like and respect you in return.
2016-08-09 11:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't do that because she is a player. Players derive certain satisfaction from playing relationship games, not letting go, and making others (in this case, you and her current boyfriend) miserable. You are NOT causing problems in her life. SHE is causing problems in YOURS. You have to realize, that she IS causing problems in your life by playing with your heart. That is cruel, mean, and totally disrespectful of her toward your feelings. You will see, she will end up being dumped by both of you, because these kind of games never last for too long, and that is a good part.
2006-08-19 15:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the first answer might be right, because most girls DO want attention in special ways like that...BUT keep in mind that she just might want to be able to be friends with you without having any problems. She didn't break up with you because she hated you, its just that she dosen't think that you are right for her. That is probably what she was talking about, she still wants to be friends and if her current boyfirend has a problem with that, he SHOULD be out the door!
2006-08-19 15:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by rawrawree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why might you desire anyone that broke up with you. I assurance you that she might no longer have any appreciate for you should you simply accredited her again after she broke your middle. Show a few self-appreciate, and inform her she made her selection while she walked clear of you, and now you consider it's bigger should you hold your distance. Make her appreciate you, quit the communique. She has no longer had any time to overlook you, due to the fact that you continue to enable her to hold in contact. Let her leave out you, after which might be in time if the 2 of making a decision that your breakup used to be a mistake, allow her come to you. Be a person, supply her a while to observe what she did. If you like her, you desire her to like and appreciate you in go back.
2016-08-21 00:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why might you % somebody that broke up with you. I assure you that she would not have any admire for you in case you in basic terms time-honored her returned after she broke your coronary heart. teach some self-admire, and tell her she made her decision whilst she walked faraway from you, and now you experience it somewhat is greater in case you save your distance. Make her admire you, stop the communique. She has no longer had any time to omit you, because of the fact you nonetheless enable her to maintain in touch. enable her omit you, and then consistent with danger in time if the two one among you agree on that your breakup became right into a mistake, enable her come to you. Be a guy, provide her some time to attain what she did. in case you like her, you % her to love and admire you in return.
2016-10-02 07:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by sarver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if getting back together is what she wants, and in any case you need to spend some time away from her to get over her. It's not good for you to keep thinking about her and not moving on. You deserve a new love too.
She's not your girlfriend anymore, calling her that just keeps you confused.
2006-08-19 15:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she has security problems!Seems like she just wanted to experiment with someone else.& is bent on breaking off before she gets broke off with.If i loved someone,there is no way I would jepordize the relationship in any way,not intentionally that is.
2006-08-19 15:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋