My older brother is getting married and I am afraid that he will forget about me. I like the girl he is marrying but he is my brother and i don't want him to forget about me. He has been so cought up in wedding plans that he forgot about my birthday... he didn't compleaty forget.. but he didn't throw me a party like he has done scince i was 5. Help me!
2006-08-19 14:51:27 · 14 answers · asked by Kacy! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't worry, I'm sure that after the wedding, which is something that can be very stressful and time consuming planning, that your brother won't forget about you. Also, since he didn't completely forget your birthday, you just have to know and tell yourself that he loves you, because if he really didn't love or care for you, your birthday never would have even been a pop-up or existence in his mind. Love your brother for all the good things he does do for you, not the things he doesn't or isn't presently doing, he's done things for you as a loving brother before, if he is still that loving brother, I'm positive for you that he'll do it again once he gets his life in order.. But honestly, I can assure you that he won't forget you after he is done planning his wedding.
2006-08-19 16:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you may have been the #1 girl in your brother's life for years, you are going to have to accept that there's another leading lady now. This may sound harsh, but think about it. You'll get married one day and how would you feel if your beloved's sister seemed more important to him than you? Don't be too hard on him for not rolling out the red carpet on your birthday--if he's in the middle of planning a wedding, he's being pulled in ten different directions at once! This one act of negligence probably doesn't mean much in regard to what the rest of your lives will be like. Just be gently there for him while he is likely being hen-pecked by all the other women in his life (his fiance, his mom-in-law, his mother, etc). That will keep you closer to him than anything else.
2006-08-20 20:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny Alice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wprry he wont forget about you.
He probably didn't throw you a party as he was too busy with the wedding plans. On the bright side he didnt totally forget about you. Just enjoy the wedding prep and help him out.
Things will work out ... he is your brother there is NO way he will forget you. You guys go way back!
Hope I helped you!
And BTW Belated Happy Birthday :)
2006-08-19 23:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by Hillary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are selfish as if it was you getting married and were busy for the preparation .What you would be doing.Marriage is a new step in someones life and i don't think that by marring ur bro will forget you. I advice you not to be jealous .
2006-08-19 22:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by milly s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you need to get a life for yourself. Stop trying so hard to make your brother notice you. Give him time, he has made his choice, now be a good girl and enjoy your new sister-n-law. Sounds like your over protective of him. He still remembers you.
2006-08-19 23:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember that he loves you. he won't forget about you. it's a little hard to forget a sibling. my brother just left for college and i miss him like crazy but he always makes sure that when he comes home he takes me out. either to lunch or breakfast or just to run some errands. so don't worry he won't forget you.
2006-08-19 21:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by x3 L0venTHEpack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of new stuff going on with him and he may not have been able to work everything in. I would definitely not worry about the things you are afraid of. that is for sure.
2006-08-19 23:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by Tony T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry sweety the woman is his life has him occupied for right now! Write him a letter and a small gift! my sister does the same thing for me, she gives me a small stick pic with me and her.. so be patient..
2006-08-20 02:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt that why don't you try getting involved in the weddding that way you still have that close feeling and you get to spend time with him as well good luck
2006-08-19 23:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by murkymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could he forget about his baby sister, he will not.
2006-08-19 22:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋