Would you be really upset if the guy that you've been going out with for years cheated on you with a girl thats uglyer than you or twice your size? I heard this from some people at the mall as I walked by whats your take on it? I'd feel sorry for the guy!
2006-08-19 14:43:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My hub of 24 yrs left me for an older, dumber, uglier bee-yotch.
I will hate him forever, but I found a younger, better looking, funner man. Life is full of twists!
2006-08-19 14:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously if he cheated there was something wrong with the relationship and/or he was just a dog. Cheating has nothing to do with looks, maybe the other girl gave him something that his woman wasn't giving him. Either way, he was wrong to cheat but unless it's been verified his girl shouldn't be listening to people at the mall. People gossip and rumors get started and half the time ther rumors aren't even true.
2006-08-19 21:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it matters what the other woman looks like or who she is even...the issue is between the people in the relationship. betrayal is betrayal. would a woman actually be less hurt to find out that he cheated with someone more beautiful or smarter? is it more upsetting to think that this "uglier or fatter" person might have something intangible that the girlfriend cant cultivate or compete with? does it validate his betrayal if he does it for "obvious" reasons? not sure why someone should feel sorry for him, this was apparently a have cake and eat it too thing for him, and he's quite likely to win back the gf and keep doing whatever and whoever he'd like.
2006-08-19 21:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that happened to me and I was very upset because I couldn't understand it. I think I wouldn't have been so mad if it had been somebody better looking than me becasue at least then you can kinda understand why. Not that there is ever a good reason to cheat on somebody but at least if they are Tyra Banks pretty you can understand what had happened. But if they are like, ohhhh who is an ugly woman on tv?, can't think of one anyways if they are way uglier then that is just messed up.
2006-08-19 21:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Erica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can someone judge who is uglier than themselves? That seems sort of low of them...and as for us tall people.. it's nice.. for us and for the guys from what I've heard. The cheating thing is bad... but I'd have to know more about the other person or what happened to say any more.
2006-08-19 21:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Hayley M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl but I think that the guy is a sleaze ball for doing something like that especially for cheating. I hate very few things but cheating is one.
2006-08-19 21:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by West Virginia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if she is fatter, uglier, smaller, has a better job it will hurt. But my thing is to go on with my life and be happy. I not looking to spite him because that means i have not gotten over him, but if i am genuinely happy with someone else, when he sees me he will have to think over what he had done.
2006-08-19 22:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by precioustt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i would be mad!!! but it wouldnt hurt me that much because the fact that i know im better looking then his new g/f and that theres no competition at all!! right girls am i right or what!!!! and that if he finds the girl hes with is more attractive then me then he must got problems...leaving his better looking g/f for some chick that cant compare to her...ya'll feel!!! its the truth and im speaking it right now!!!
2006-08-19 21:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by kitty_katWants_toPlAy!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad at him for cheating and tell his butt to move on,but don't put people down for how they look or size,its what is in there heart that counts.
2006-08-19 21:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
contrary to popular belief... it is not all about looks. and if i were you, i would not be quick to judge someone you probably don't know based solely on their looks. i doubt you would like it if someone told you you were twice their size and uglier than them. cheating is a sleazy thing to do, no matter who you are.
2006-08-19 21:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by adriana24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋