please help me. what should i do about this?
2006-08-19 14:26:59 · 40 answers · asked by *cute cat* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all it's a normal thing for a young girl to be attracted to and older man. Nothing's wrong with that. Some girls find older men to be much mature and intelligent than guys their age, but i think it would be wise if you stick with peers your own age, to be on the safe side. You wouldn't want him to get in trouble right?
2006-08-19 14:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you? If you are in junior high school, daydreaming about a teacher is perfectly normal....all part of that wonderful hormones!! However, if you really like your teacher you will and can stop thinking of him as a love pursuit. Think about it....would you want him to get in trouble with the law? Plus, it might help to think of him like your father, that will really turn off the fantasy. Finally, start looking around at the boys your age, there are plenty who would want to experiment and they wouldn't get in trouble with the law!
Good luck!
2006-08-19 14:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by river 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO this is so funny. I had a crush on my teacher when I was in high school. I don't even remember that anymore. I'm so over it. having a crush is so fun. if you were to let him know about how you feel, it would ruin the whole thing. just fantasize about him, and that is all you need to do. if he's not married, maybe one day when you are out of school, you'll meet him again and hit it off. age is not really a big factor. but ruining your education over petty things like this is a big deal. just smile and let it go. someday, you will never even remember him.
2006-08-19 14:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've all been in that situation as someone already said. I had a crush on my Biology teacher (lol) I eventually had to have my class changed to an alternative teahcer's period because it started distracting me from my work.
My advice: Either see if you can get a different teacher or an alternative class, or just rough it out and keep the fantasies confined to your shower.
The Bandit strike again!
lol
-Cheers!
2006-08-19 14:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how much this could hurt him. Your little crush could ruin his life, make him lose his job, lose his wife, hurt his kids, ruin him financially and send him to prison. Is your crush worth his life? Find a hobby, or better yet, several hobbies and meet boys your own age. You'll grow out of your crush and you'll look back on this and realize what a huge mistake you could have made and how many people you would have hurt.
2006-08-19 14:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by HeavenLeigha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop!!!! he is an adult and if you like him you wont do anything. Teachers are off limits. Now days, you telling people could even get him in trouble. Its not fair if he is a good teacher and wants to help kids. STOP IT!
2006-08-19 14:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by latina44572002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what would you do with him if you caught him? Sleep with him? I'm sure his wife and kids would love that. So would your family who would be able to brag about "my daughter the home wrecker". If you are in high school then you could get him arrested for being a pedophile.
Do yourself and everyone else a favor and let it remain a fantasy--strictly in your own mind.
2006-08-19 14:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step away fromt he teacher... Don't try to make a move... Thinkn about the consequences... And how it will make you look in the public eye as well as in the teachers eye... He may have plenty of respect for you right now... Don't ruin it and have him think of you as easy...
2006-08-19 14:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by Myzz Undastood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, do not problem, it really is thoroughly universal, to have a overwhelm/emotional attachment to a instructor you recognize. I had that with my languages and events instructors at the same time as i became ur age (i became v sturdy at languages and events). you won't be able to fairly rigidity urself to imagine a diverse way. believe me, at the same time as he leaves or you leave college those thoughts will ultimately fade, you'll prob continuously remember him fondly yet basically as a sensible instructor.
2016-11-26 19:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your guidance counsellor. It's not an uncommon thing to have a crush on a teacher, but it's not exactly a good thing either.
2006-08-19 14:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by The Nerd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋