We're just in the same classes, we both know that we exsist but talk to our own people.
2006-08-19 14:19:38 · 19 answers · asked by georgia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start by smiling. That indicates that you are friendly and open.
Next, find a way to compliment her. - In passing say, ":Nice
Jacket! That color looks great on you." or "Did you do something
different with your hair? You look good today." (If she says no,
tell her she's having a good hair day.) Eye contact/friendly/smile.
Don't expect any particular result. You basically want her to notice you and think that you're nice. Also... you can say (instead of "Hi, there!" when you greet) "There she is!" and continue on with what you're doing. As long as you continue (as if you're passing in the hall) you're all set. You can also follow it up with a wink- but only if you are planning to keep walking. This will make her wonder what you're thinking and why you didn't stop.
Just make everything seem natural because you're a friendly guy.
Eventually she has to notice. (If you're in the same class, make sure you give her enough room.- That basically means most of the time act as if she's not on your mind. You don't want her to think that you're stalking her.
I'm sure you can come up with some others- if she's on a team
and made a great shot that weekend tell her you heard about it and that she's fire on the court. *(or whatever) Just don't come on too strong in the beginning.
Strive to become friends first- someone that she knows will
brighten her day. That's where it all starts. That will get your foot in the door. Slip her a Lindt chocolate ball and say- "Oooh, and I
gave you the Hazelnut one!-- The sacrifices I make!" -- Just playing-- You get the idea.
Good luck! :)
2006-08-19 14:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The element of surprise is the best option here. She's probably not expecting you to walk up to her and say something...but if you do just that, that will let her know that "wow, I can't believe he just did that" And it's not a good thing to wait, I'd do it as soon as possible.
Also, make sure that her people and your people are somewhere in the near vicinity...so that your people and her people will see the whole scenario. That will impress her, by showing her that you don't really care what other people think of you, but that she's the only thing that's important to you.
Good luck.
2006-08-19 21:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by helpWanteD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start out by talking about the classes maybe she can help in whatever class
then after a while do some small talk
then when you see her out and about say hi and stuff
dont be to forward and dont chase her but if it takes to long then ask her out
2006-08-19 21:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by mgiff6872 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since you already know her then jus go up to her and be like look I know we don't talk that much but I want to get to know you more and I was wondering if it would be ok if I could take you tonight if your not taken or anything. It doesn't have to be a date it could be a night where we have plain and simple fun and we go where ever you wanna go.
2006-08-19 21:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Charissa H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about starting with something simple like wanna go have a soda after school?
It is actually easier to ask on the phone because you don't have to look at the person, especially if they say no.
2006-08-19 21:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit next to her in class, and then when something like the teacher says theres a test. Just be like ugh no and then ask her opion about it. Then, keep going from there.
2006-08-19 21:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should find something your both interested with and then talk to her about that. The conversation will go better if she feels comfortable in her own skin.
2006-08-19 21:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by MonkeyBrains 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start off with small talk. Just say hi when you go by her and eventually she will say hi back. Then sooner or later you both will be having conversations.
2006-08-19 21:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by West Virginia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and talk, ask her about your classes or ask her to help you with a question (even if you don't need help) or accidentally bump into her. take the chance or you will never know what the answer may be.
2006-08-19 21:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just talk 2 her.. i say do it over somewhere u are conforatable... like internet, fone, in person... and just get to know her like ask her how she is and what music she listens to and or bring up your class.. we just want guys 2 like us 4 us and ask us about u.. but also answer your questions like if u ask what ur fav band is... be like mine are so and so urs are..so just go 4 it.. she dont like u 4 u well then go find someone better
2006-08-19 21:26:28 · answer #10 · answered by missshelby11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋