Wut if i have a guy friend that has grabed my a** and say's he's playin around and continues to grab me and try and hold my hand and say's he's playin around? wut would it mean? But he is like very popular and has a girlfriend and is all cool with the other guy's and i am a guy and im his friend were not gay? at least me!
2006-08-19 14:14:41 · 15 answers · asked by lil_enchilada05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He's probably gay and is just saying hes joking to cover it up. IT would look weird if he didn't have a girlfriend so he has one, but he sounds gay
2006-08-19 14:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I imagine he is testing the waters. A wise person once told me that there is truth in jest. If he says he's just kidding you can be almost certain there's at least a little question in his mind about his sexuality. I suggest telling him that his behavior is making you uncomfortable. Also, without coming out and and saying, "Dude, I think you're gay," you could let him know that if he ever needs to talk about something that's on his mind he can tell you and you won't judge him or betray his trust by telling anyone else.
2006-08-19 21:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rachael 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well just because he has a gf and is very popular does not mean he couldn't be gay. I mean those are just covers to appear normal. But with you, he probably figures he can be himself and might like you in a homosexual way. So don't freak out, just let him know you aren't about things like that.
2006-08-19 21:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible that he's gay, but it's also possible that he's wasted or has had a lot to drink. i know people can do crazy things when they're drunk. even my dad. my dad's one of the worst. he once told my younger sister how pretty she was and that if he was her age he would have been going out with her. with me, he annoys me constantly, and when i tell him to stop he's always telling me that he's just playing around with me but continues to annoy me. there's also the possibility that this guy is just playing around with you because he can get away with it. if he's girlfriend found out he was doing that to a girl, she would go off at him and most likely try to break up with him. if she found out that he was doing that to a guy, she may think he's gay or most commonly think that these are the sorta things guys do to each other as mates. if it really bothers you, tell him to his face how unappropriate this is and this sorta thing is sorta considered as sexual harassment. if he continues to do this, tell him straight to his face that you cant be friends with him any longer.
2006-08-19 21:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes gay and afraid to say. He is hoping you will take the hint and make a move on him.
Tell him straight out. I don't give a crap if you are playing or not stop that **** or I am gonna kick the **** out of you.
2006-08-19 21:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Questions&Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just soooo hot he can't help but touch you.....ok seriously, maybe he is gay and he thinks you are too and is hoping you will touch him back. OR, LOL, maybe he is Bi? There is a lot to consider. But, on a serious note, if you feel uncomfortable with it, just be like dude, what's up with all your touchy, feely, crap? Hopefully he will back off. If not, Knock his **** out!
2006-08-19 21:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.....k. I think ole dude's gay. Like full on Liberache gay and he doesn't want anyone to know, but for some reason he trusts you. You need to ask him. I would seem like a concerned friend and let him know that you care but you're not like that. Wow. I dunno. That's kind of a lot to take in.
2006-08-19 21:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, he sounds weird. Does he do this to anyone else? I would find out. Next time he says he is playing around tell him, "I don't play THAT way." He will back off.
2006-08-23 12:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay. He's trying to figure out if you're gay too. Tell him in NO uncertain terms that you're not gay and to stop hitting on you. Tell him that if he persists, your friendship will be in jeopardy.
2006-08-19 21:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by Super Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i'd say he has some sex issues.i think he is gay and that he like you or wants to experiement and you are the object of his obsession
2006-08-19 21:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by hunnie l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋