2006-08-19 14:12:18 · 18 answers · asked by crystal_payten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i thought it was safe sex! they had given me something for an infection that interfered with my birth control. and i'm divorced and have a well taken care of 3 year old!not to mention i am a responsible law student and work full time in a law office! it was an honest mistake!
2006-08-19 14:34:01 · update #1
Give the baby up for adoption. You are both too irresponsible to raise a child, and kids deserve the very best. No, don't tell him!
What is the point in dredging up drama for someone that very clearly only wants to have careless fun. DIRTY, DIRTY DIRTY.
2006-08-19 14:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to continue this pregnancy, he has a right to know if he has a child. If you create a child, that baby has rights and it is not all about whether you were stupid enough to have unsafe and meaningless sex or whether you want something between you and the father.
If you are going to terminate, there's no baby and no obligation. It's your body. But if you have a baby, not only should you tell, but social services may require you to tell. You need some serious counselling on your options and on whether you have any business bringing a child into the world in this point in your life.
Just be sure you get help from an organization that will give you all your options and honest information.
2006-08-19 21:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should get an abortion, Single moms know how hard it is. You think finding guys now is hard try it out when you have baggage. The best advice I can give is that you should consider an abortion. It's a little unfair springing this information on him expecting that it will make him commit to you. But all that said if you want child support then you'll have to tel him. Best of luck!
2006-08-19 21:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are keeping the baby yes. Once you have a child inside you this is no longer about you or the guy but the baby. How would you feel if your mother had partied wit a guy, had sex with him, had you and decided not to tell your dad.....selfish huh and u bee all screwed up....
2006-08-19 21:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by latina44572002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you should tell. first thing first you should of had safe sex but your to late now. SO tell your family & tell HIM that he is going to be a dad. then at least he will know if you come to claim off him for the child. unless you dont intend to keep the baby then just keep it to yourself.
2006-08-19 21:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutly my sister went through the same thing and her son is 15 now with some issues
the child has a right to know both parents its only fair
even if the guy doesnt stay with you it would be the right thing to do
good luck to you
2006-08-19 21:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by mgiff6872 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to have the baby and keep it, then it's his right to know and his responsibility to help you. If you're not having it, why tell him? Only you know for sure how he's going to handle the news either way. Good luck.
2006-08-19 21:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u should tell him bc he has a right to decide whether he is a part of the childs life now if he dont want to be then it will be up to u to make sure he signs over his legal rights so that he has no claim to your child .
2006-08-19 21:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,toot`s you are a winner,for shore.happy motherhood! and yes tell him,but don`t expect anything from him.no candy or flowers.and support for-get that! you really take the cake. smart move!
2006-08-19 21:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God! Please tell. My husband doesn't even know who is father is and it really messed him up big time. Tell the man and try to get him involved. It is SO important for the emotional well-being of the baby.
2006-08-19 21:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by sunneybear1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋