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No, it may come to to your benefit, as he may gain experience in the field of wang (sexual delinquency).

2006-08-19 14:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

1. You do not know where or what anyone is actually doing, when they leave the house. Unless, you are with them, you have to slowly build trust by observing their actions. So a certain amount of self-confidence and leeway for trust must exist.

2. If there are fair grounds for suspicion (i.e. he's always talking about some other woman all the time, or is going to stop out for drinks after work without inviting you, to name a few), then just drop in at his work some time unannounced. Now you can meet the woman he is always talking about. You'll know right away if something is going on by their body language with each other.

3. Then decide for yourself if you want to continue.

4. If you suffer from abandonment anxiety, you just have to bite the bullet.

5. Watch the type of men you choose to date. Are you drawn to a type, rather than character? Just some things to think about.

6. You don't want to be possessively jealous — that's the quickest way to put the kibosh on a relationship by strangling the excitement of seeing you by being met with distrust. You're not alone. Many people struggle with this anxiety, which you may or may not have.

2006-08-19 14:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by mitch 6 · 0 0

If you are even asking that question, you are already worrying and seem to have some doubts.

Working with only women will make no difference if he's a faithful person and likely not much if he's not. A dog will find women one way or another.

What you should do is to be honest about having some concerns about this situation. Tell the boyfriend calmly and without making accusations that you are the one who feels uncomfortable. His reaction should tell you all you need to know.

If you are constantly worrying if your partner is faithful, something is wrong in the relationship, whether it is really his fooling around or whther it's your insecurity. Either you trust someone or you don't.

2006-08-19 14:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't think you should worry if you KNOW deep in your heart that he's faithful and loyal. Don't be in denial, just truly look deep into his character and think whether you're in doubt about it. If there's a doubt, says Oprah Winfrey lol, its a NO. For you NO means, that you should worry about him.
Talk it out with him and actually ask him whether your feelings for this is unnecessary. And tell him that you love him so much and trust him not to stray away. Oh and be firm with him too ok? Lol, you gotta make him scared of you a lil, in terms of you leaving him if he truly messed up your relationship. He doesn't wanna lose this gal who loves him a lot does he?He'll be stupid to lose you. :)

2006-08-19 14:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by *~liYana~* 3 · 0 0

If you have to ask that question, then yes.

But seriously, women thrive on attention. Whether your boyfriend wants any of those women or not, your going to have "problems".

Maybe not physical problems involving infedelity, but problems as in...picking him up from work and seeing the cleavage of all the women who work there.

2006-08-19 14:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hmm since women exist everywhere, hehe, did you worry prior? If you have a decent man and youre working together towards a future together...you shouldnt worry.

2006-08-19 14:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It depends. What is your relationship with him? Have you been nice to him? What is the reason he's working in that field, and how is it relevant to his career path? Does he have a specific career path or is he just working arround from job to job. If he has a career path, don't wory about it, it's just a phase. If she's swithing job to job, do be worried, she's not found what he's looking for. Which means he's still looking.

2006-08-19 14:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I guess it depends on the setting. If he's working at a strip club or something I would definitely worry. If he's in an office, I think you will be ok.

2006-08-19 14:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0 1

If you worry, then you don't trust him. Has he done anything in the past to give you reason not to trust him and to worry? If he has, then he'll fool around wherever he works.

2006-08-19 14:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

TRUST is the game
if your bf loves you so much nothing to worry about.
no matter how many women surrounds your man, he still seeks and seeks for real love and don't worry bcuz it's you girl.

2006-08-19 14:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by cHaStiTy 3 · 0 0

If you know hes a strong person and can resist temptation and hasnt given you any reason to doubt him...then Id cut him some slack. Inocent untill proven guilty.

2006-08-19 14:05:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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