ok well i used to like a guy and i said i was over him but he popped back into my mind today...i just cant get over him...everytime i'd try to tell him how i feel he wouldnt even listen...like one day i called him and all i said is **his name** there? and he hung up. after that i got over him but now i like him again..i need help on what to do...cause i just cant get over him...i've like him for like a year and a half. Any one have any advice 10 points to the person who helps out the most.
2006-08-19 13:47:33 · 19 answers · asked by homie-G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg u guys r making me sound like a stalker...i only called him once...thats all...after that i havent even contacted him
2006-08-19 13:55:58 · update #1
Forget about him and move on. Simple
2006-08-19 13:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
See this is why men don't act right. Please stop letting guys treat you this way. Hanging up on someone is one of the rudest things you can do. But doing it to someone who cares about you makes it a hundred times worse. He has no consideration for common courtesy or your feelings so why should you give him the satisfaction of treating you like dirt? If you think about calling him or approaching him again, do this. Imagine he had a house full of people when you called him. He hung up before you could even start a conversation, and he turned to his friends to tell them all about the loser who keeps calling him no matter how badly he treats her. They all sit around laughing at your expense. So ask yourself, weren't you put here to be more than somebody's joke? Think about it.
2006-08-19 20:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard..it really isn't now answer or a way to not think of someone that you has feeling for.
I'll say this much, it isn't healthy that you keep putting yourself through this, if he don't want anything else to do with you, then stop calling him, or having to put yourself through that..
I'm not just saying this for no 10 points or nothing else that you can give, I know how it feels to be in love or like someone and they don't feel the same about you..it's just time to let go, and move on, not saying it's easy because it aint.
2006-08-19 20:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by lil bit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it him or the sex that u missed the most. Some guys have a way of getting in ur system and drive u mad. I see live ur life if he comes around and wants to hook up again then deal with it then. Right now u need to be looking for Mr. Right NOW. and have fun.
2006-08-19 20:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kno how u feel i like this boi named Cary and i went with him for 2 years and we broke up and i can't get him out of my head all i can say baby gurl is try ur best to move on i kno it will be hard trust me i kno but u have to and when u do u will feel a lot better u just can't hold on to that one person cuz if u do u'll miss out on a lot of things so move on baby gurl its the best thing to do
2006-08-19 20:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with this one guy 5 times in a 2 year stretch. I let him call me all sorts of names and make fun of me in front of his friends. One day he called me a stupid effin ***** and I just told him to go get effed and found another guy.
In short: move on. Move away even.
2006-08-19 20:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by DeadxStar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time liking this guy? Is he REALLY worth wondering if he really likes you? I think NOT.....honey there are plenty of men out there that are one million times better than him and would tell you up front that he likes you instead of turning on the "deaf" ear. Just leave him alone, he ain't worth the heartache and pain.
2006-08-19 20:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by chocolateheaven84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in your same boat i had dated this guy for 5 years then he just decided didnt love me anymore so i was left lonely and empty inside............so i wiped off my tears and got real pretty got my hair done, nails, toes and hit the club i assure you it will make you feel better meet new people get a fresh new look and a start and if you dont feel any better e-mail me i got a plan
2006-08-19 20:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by LilMissYady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, go find the book, "Hes Just Not That Into You" when you read that you won't have a problem getting over him!
2006-08-19 20:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more u push the more he'll go away..maybe he's not really interested in you..if i were u, go look somewhere else..stop putting yourself down..there's a lot of guys out there..he's jsut not into u so get it over with..stay happy and stay beautiful :)
2006-08-19 20:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prolly isnt interested , and ur prolly bugging him when u seem so forward. the guys like to be in control of a relationship. what u should do is wait 4 him to like u...and u can...help him along...hehehe.....(act extremely sexy around him) then he'll go nuts and he wants u, but act like i totally over u, then hell want u tons more
2006-08-19 20:53:15 · answer #11 · answered by sweetiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋