Should i think that something is going on???????

Question

I was out with my man and his ex was at the same party she come the 1st time and said hi to him, i did not care i was not beside him, i was across the room . about 10 mins later she came back with a friend and began to have a converation with him and i was next to him. so i leaned over and said" baby can i have some of your food" and the ex fully took off with out saying bye or anything. but here is the catch she had called him before to ask who he was with and he told her that we were at the party togther. my man said that he did not want to tell me because he did not want to mess up our night. we have been together for 5 years and have a 2 and a half year old

Answer 1

dear god... he is shady..

Answer 2

Let your man know that there should be no more secrets.None,whatsoever between the two of you and that you's should talk about anything that is on your minds.That ex sounds like trouble but you have a beautiful baby and you have been with this man 5 years,how come this ex is still around in his life.She needs to move on.Your man shouldn't be talking to her on the phone or telling her where he is gonna be.Hmmmmm.

Answer 3

Highly unusual, the taking off as soon as you call him "baby." You'd think she'd've realized you were his girlfriend. Some women just never get it; they think they can have whatever they want whenever, and she probably just didn't make the connection...but ah, next time introduce yourself to whoever your man is talking to. It's polite, and she should have been introduced to you as well.

I'm not sure if it's completely innocent or if it's shady. It could go either way. Guess you'll just have to trust him for now?

Answer 4

it sounds like the ex was up to some mischief but i think you man seems like he is on the up and up
if he was fishing around for something from his woman, he would not have taken you to the party.
i know you are worried that he didn't tell you about her calling him but i can see how he would think you might be upset and not want to make an issue of it. He made of point of telling her he was with you so it seems to me he made it clear to her that he wasn't trying to rekindle with her.
i don't think you have anything to worry about from him, unless there are other issues you haven't mentioned here. if this is your only concern, do not waste any time or energy worrying about it, things seem stable to me. hope this helps

Answer 5

It sounds like something might be up, if he didn't say anything to you before than he might be hiding something. He should of told you that he was talking to his ex, in less he didn't want to start a fight. I would watch him, mostly I would watch the ex, because she properly wants your man and just wants to be a homewreaker

Answer 6

Wellllll, you asked.

The man knew and kept information from you. That's dishonest and untrustworthy.

Before you leave him or whatever, make sure you have a lawyer so that you can get your child's support money until age 18.'

Answer 7

I don't think you have anything to worry about you've been with him for 5years already and the ex is an ex for a reason. Don't feel insecure about the relationship unless he gives you reason to.

Answer 8

It sounds pretty Innocent, but why do you have questions, is it because you are insecure with your relationship or has there been problems in the past? You should probably go with your gut feeling. It can never steer you wrong.

Answer 9

How much of an ex is she? you've been with him 5 years and he got a call recently...they been talking girl!

Answer 10

If he is not man enough to tell her he is there with his woman. I'd be wondering why???

If you have been together 5 years she shouldn't have a problem with that. Unless he is still seeing her.

Answer 11

No, you shouldnt think anything of it, its all the ex, she's jelouse.. because she used to have your man.. now she doesnt and that upsets her. It sounds like your guy loves you and would never want to hurt you.