My boyfriend is very obsessed with the physical parts of our relationship...nothing past kissing, but he's always cuddleing me and making me feel uncomfortable especially when my parents are around. Not sure what to do?
2006-08-19 13:37:27 · 13 answers · asked by bethnicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simply, you must talk to him. Communication is the way, especially if you're just getting physical aspects of the relationship!
Tell him you're uncomfortable cuddling infront of your parents and that he has some boundary issues he needs to reconsider... Work it out with him and if he doesn't comply, well, you know what to do. /:
2006-08-19 13:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Slippers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like it that is ok but just tell him that you dont mind cause you love it but when you are around your parents relax they do not want to see that and it makes you uncomfortable around because ,its your parents . Certain things they already know as parents but it dose not have to be in there face. Explain that to him if he loves you he will understand ,a kiss here and there yes but to look like a piece of meat in front of your parents, tell him to calm himself you got all night. good luck
2006-08-19 20:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by Robyn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!, Tell him his PDA's (Public Displays of Affection) especially in front of your parents make you uncomfortable and you want him to stop it. He's behaving like a ten year old. He needs to mature and respect you.
2006-08-19 20:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to stop...I've never had a b/f but if I did and he did that to me I would feel that he was only in the relationship for my body or something else.
2006-08-19 20:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Toyre_826 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, and explain that he makes feel you uncomfortable
in front of your parents especially.
2006-08-19 20:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him it makes you uncomfortable when he does that and if he cannot respect you and not do that then he needs to go.
2006-08-19 20:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you do not feel comfortable, showing affection around your parents and he should respect that, tell him that you still love him except that it should be kept when you guys are alone, and that you are not ready to go there.
2006-08-19 20:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by blinkdan04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he probley loves you a hole lot then he wants to move up to the next level in love so go along with it tell him you love him
2006-08-19 20:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel. If he really cares about you and respects you, he'll understand.
2006-08-19 20:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by brianottis08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u do not like that and if he truly likes u he will respect ur wishes, if he doesn't u could find someone who is much worthy of ur time
2006-08-19 20:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋