If you have seen any of my other questions..this is a continuation (go read them for the quick 101). I have been having issues with a guy. We like eachother but he trys to get me jealous by constantly mentioning another girl wanting a reaction. I finally asked him why he did it & at first he was in denial, then he admitted it and didn't know what to say & didn't know how he felt. He and I havent spoken since thin almost 3 weeks, and we both work together! Yet he still hangs out with another girl and manages some way to tell me about the girl whether it is through my friend or away messages. I decided (although it still bothered me) to hold my ground and not make a reaction. Then he became very shy and awkward around me @ work. I found him constantly watching me from afar but if I came near him he would hurry to his desk and look down and away. So I got frustrated. When I went online last night, he was looking at all my websites. (yes, I have trackers) Is he finally coming around?
2006-08-19 13:30:56 · 18 answers · asked by elfyeaf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ya, he wants you baby. That a pretty good sign of it, the interest. This jealously thing is a little childish though, don't get pissy with me now; I don't know what you've both been through and I've not the interest to read up on it in your thing. A little to voyeuristic for me, don't you know. Still it would be a good thing time wise if you just laid it on the line now, give it to him with both barrels and I bet he'd be yours. Good luck if that's what you want and tell him to stop that crap, it's only going to make things hard between yous. All the best in this eh, we all need love.
2006-08-19 13:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really dosent matter unless you want a joker in you life. he seems like he likes to play alot of games and I am one who is not for games. Noone wants to feel second best and even if he is just being this way to make you jealous its not cool. Is this something you want to go through? Its not even that serious and he is playing games what if you guys were?............. By the way how do you get a tracker,lmaorof... seriously though. good luck girl
2006-08-19 20:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by Robyn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be. the question is, why all the games and drama? if he wants to be with you, he should cut through the bullsh#* and come correct. do you have time for all this drama. if he's doing this now don't you think that might a sign of things to come if you guys do enter into something serious? he's obviously interested but you don't need a dude who's going to try to mess with your head.
2006-08-19 20:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes hearing about an ex or another girl all the time hurts I know been there... but doesnt mean he will cheat on you or hurt you.. but he can also not talk about her all the time.. if it was meant to be for you 2 he will come around and then you 2 need to sit down and not bring up the past.. let bi gones be bi gones and get on with the future or get over it....
2006-08-27 00:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by lkwood39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl stop playing games and move on and date people you do not work with.
2006-08-19 20:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep chasing him; the chase is going to be better then the catch. So don't stop the chase ever.
Get some one else to satisfy your actual quest.
2006-08-19 20:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, boys are dumb and like to play games more then us girls do. All I can say is do the silent treatment and see where that leads you. he may come around he may not wait and see
2006-08-19 20:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never screw the crew. Its seems that your just finding this out. By the way what's it like being a stalker!
2006-08-19 20:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it'll take u ages before he'll come around..for the meantime if u enjoy the excitement and the 'mystery' of it all, enjoy it while u can..lol..otherwise go find somewhere else, if ur looking that is :)
2006-08-19 20:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by just me:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe..but i dont think you to are right for eachother/. he shouldnt put u through this if i were u id leave him and go be with someone that appreiates you
2006-08-27 17:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jstlovinyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋