My boy and I have been together for more than 2 years. It's been a loooong distance relationship, with us seeing each other an average of every two months. We've stayed together because it's so great when we were together and there hasn't been anybody we've seriously considered being with since. We have such a great time, we can talk about everything. He's my confidant and we essentially want the same things in life. SOMETIMES I'M SO HAPPY TO HAVE HIM I COULD BURST! Now that his schooling is over, he can come to the states and live with me if: he gets a job that will give him a visa or if we get married. But we can't get married just to give him a visa if he doesn't have a job. Another thing: our chemistry is a bit lacking sometimes...It's just not all fireworks, never has been. Is that because of the strain we've always been under? Is it THAT important? Or are we just trying to hard to stay together because it'll hurt too much to break up? No trial separation!
2006-08-19 13:12:08 · 5 answers · asked by Madie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
split up
2006-08-19 13:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you care about this guy and you think he's worth it, do what you can to help him get here. Find out what his skills are, what he's looking for, research job opportunities in your area. I would not suggest getting married just to keep him here but how can you know if it will work out if he never gets here? Sounds to me like it's worth a shot especially if he makes you SO HAPPY YOU COULD BURST! Good luck.
2006-08-19 13:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with him and wait for marraige
2006-08-19 13:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by kkk09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say stay with him!
2006-08-19 13:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by hollisterco22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should keep trying to stay with him and see wut happens. it sounds good so far
2006-08-19 13:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by madchiman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋